Double‐Layer Masking of Suffering After Pregnancy Loss: A Grounded Theory Study from a Male Perspective
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Introduction: Men can express different responses after pregnancy loss. This loss can interfere with their expectation of parenthood, new life, and future hopes. Expectations from the social construction of gender can encourage them to maintain an image that contradicts their actual feelings. This can lead to isolation, distancing, and difficulties in seeking support. The scarcity and low representation of men in previous studies makes research that captures the complexity of their experience necessary. The aim of this study was to explore how men confront the suffering caused by pregnancy loss. Methods: This study is part of a larger research project focusing on the experiences of parents and midwives following pregnancy loss. In this study, 22 cisgender and white heterosexual men who experienced pregnancy losses participated in semistructured interviews. Data were analyzed iteratively using constructivist grounded theory methods. Results: The substantive theory of double‐layer masking of suffering emerged as way to explain the confrontation of suffering after pregnancy loss from the male perspective. The themes, (1) suffering beyond physical loss, (2) rationalization in the search for meaning, and (3) keeping a façade with others, show the impact that this loss had on men, which was masked by the meaning they gave to the situation and by its social expression. Discussion: The findings provide a theoretical conceptualization of the masking these men use to deal with the suffering they experienced from this situation. These aspects provide reasons for including these individuals in the assistance given by midwives after a pregnancy loss. Collaboration between specialized and primary care, along with staff training and support, is necessary for the provision of couple‐centered care after pregnancy loss.
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The current line of argument contrasts with Fernández-Basanta et al. (2022), which appears to focus more on the impact of loss on a father's identity or role and how fathers used support to manage this change of role.
“The current line of argument thus depicts a non-linear path of grief with a focus on the messiness a father may feel in the aftermath of losing a baby, which is in contrast to the line of argument presented by Fernández-Basanta et al. (2022), which appears to focus more on the impact of loss on a father's identity or role and how fathers used support to manage this change of role.”
From Fathers’ experiences of perinatal death following miscarriage, stillbirth, and neonatal death: A meta-ethnography (2026) · cites this paper as Fernández-Basanta et al. (2022)
In Results, “Suffering Beyond a Physical Loss” describes frustration regarding fatherhood and says that an established idea of fatherhood made some losses more shocking. “Rationalization in the Search for Meaning” says conversations with partners, relatives, friends, or professionals sometimes helped men understand the loss. It does not specifically describe fathers using support to manage a change in identity or role; that links two related findings more tightly than the paper does. (LLM, conf=0.82)
Experimental — accuracy not yet measuredThe current review showed similar themes to Fernández-Basanta et al. (2022), specifically that pregnancy loss weakens a father's armor and that meaning-making by bonding with the baby is important, both reflected in the current review's findings.
“They describe pregnancy loss weakening a father's armor and highlight the importance of the process of meaning-making by bonding with their baby, which were both reflected in the current review's findings.”
From Fathers’ experiences of perinatal death following miscarriage, stillbirth, and neonatal death: A meta-ethnography (2026) · cites this paper as Fernández-Basanta et al. (2022)
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- Authors
- Fernández‐Basanta, S., Coronado, C., & Movilla‐Fernández, M.
- Affiliations
- Universidade da Coruña (ES)
- Corresponding author
- Fernández‐Basanta, Sara
- Venue
- Journal of Midwifery & Women's Health
- Publisher
- Wiley
- Published
- 2022-03-11
- Volume
- 67
- Issue
- 4
- Pages
- 470-477
- ISSN
- 1526-9523 (ISSN-L)
- 1542-2011
- PMC
- PMC9545819
- OpenAlex
- W4220706760
- Cited by
- 9
- References
- 14
- Citations by year
- 2026: 2 · 2025: 2 · 2024: 4 · 2023: 1
- FWCI
- 1.60
- Type
- journal article
- Language
- en
- Open access
- hybrid
- doi.org
- Licence
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- Journal of Midwifery & Women s Health (publishedVersion, cc-by)
- PubMed Central (publishedVersion, cc-by)
- PubMed (publishedVersion)
- RUC (Universidade Da Coruña) (submittedVersion, cc-by)
- Funders
- Universidade da Coruña
- Topics
- Social Sciences › Psychology › Clinical Psychology › Grief, Bereavement, and Mental Health
- Social Sciences › Demography › Family Dynamics and Relationships
- Social Sciences › Gender Studies › Gender Roles and Identity Studies
- Keywords
- miscarriage, men's experiences, grief, coping with loss, gender construction, rationalization, meaning-making, facade, midwife support, bereavement
- MeSH terms
- Abortion, Induced, Female, Humans, Male, Midwifery, Parents, Pregnancy, Qualitative Research, Grounded Theory
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