Loving strangers, avoiding risks: Online dating practices and scams among Chinese lesbian ( lala ) women
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The proliferating online social networking sites have created opportunities for Chinese queer women to meet new friends and lovers; yet, research on lesbian online dating in mainland China is scarce compared to heterosexual and gay online dating. This article investigates lesbian/ lala women’s online dating experiences in the context of economic reforms and the trust crisis in urban China. It is based on 16 in-depth interviews and ethnographic fieldwork in Guangdong from June 2018 to July 2019. It focuses on two digital platforms: Douban Group and WeChat. This article explores how online anonymity and stranger sociality shaped queer women’s moral practices regarding turning virtual strangers into real-life partners. Queer women in this research expressed concerns about being cheated by low quality( suzhi) lovers, swindlers, and married women. This article suggests that the emerging online stranger sociality has both enabled and constrained lesbian/ lala women’s practice of seeking loving relationships, while they must internalize the potential risks by themselves.
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There has been a growing number of romance scammers targeting younger lesbian and 'lala' women in China.
“More recently, there has been a growing number of romance scammers targeting younger lesbian and 'lala' women (defined as 'a loose term referring to lesbian, bisexual and transgender women who are attracted by women') in China (Tao, 2022).”
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- Authors
- Tao, H.
- Affiliations
- University of Sussex (GB)
- Corresponding author
- Tao, Han
- ORCID
- Tao, Han
- Venue
- Media, Culture & Society
- Publisher
- SAGE Publications
- Published
- 2022-04-12
- Volume
- 44
- Issue
- 6
- Pages
- 1199-1214
- ISSN
- 0163-4437 (ISSN-L)
- 1460-3675
- OpenAlex
- W4223416708
- Cited by
- 18
- References
- 34
- Citations by year
- 2026: 5 · 2025: 6 · 2024: 4 · 2023: 2 · 2022: 1
- FWCI
- 4.49
- Type
- journal article
- Language
- en
- Open access
- hybrid
- doi.org
- Locations
- Media Culture & Society (publishedVersion, cc-by)
- Topics
- Social Sciences › Gender Studies › Gender and Feminist Studies
- Social Sciences › Psychology › Social Psychology › LGBTQ Health, Identity, and Policy
- Social Sciences › Gender Studies › Gender, Feminism, and Media
- Keywords
- lesbians, online dating, online fraud, Lala, queer women, online anonymity, trust, WeChat, economic reform, Guangdong, mainland China, romantic relationships, swindlers
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