Grief as a transformative experience: weaving through different lifeworlds after a loved one has completed suicide
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Using Heidegger's hermeneutic phenomenology informed by van Manen's and Benner's work, this research is an exploration and interpretation of the lived experiences of family members since they lost a close family member to suicidal death. Data from in-depth interviews with six participants, the researcher's journal entries and published literature were analysed. Findings gave rise to a grief model where suicide survivors moved through four modes of being-in-the-world characterized by 13 lifeworlds or themes. Surviving suicide was a transformative process that in time enabled survivors to discover new ways of understanding and relating to the world. The findings have implications for nurses and counsellors working in the area of suicide bereavement.
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Participants reported sensing other people's fear and discomfort in social interactions and had experienced ostracism, avoidance and rejection.
“Participants reported sensing other people’s fear and discomfort in social interactions and had experienced ostracism, avoidance and rejection [46,47,49,51,53,55].”
From The Stigma of Suicide Survivorship and Related Consequences—A Systematic Review (2016) · cites this paper as [51]
Participants described being blamed for the suicide by family members, friends, and professionals, which was experienced as stigmatizing.
“Participants described being blamed for the suicide by family members, friends, and professionals, which was experienced as stigmatizing [46,51,52].”
From The Stigma of Suicide Survivorship and Related Consequences—A Systematic Review (2016) · cites this paper as [51]
There was some evidence that stigma led survivors to suppress grief-related emotions.
“Concerning qualitative results, there was some evidence that stigma led survivors to conceal the cause of the death, withdrew from social interactions or suppress their grief-related emotions [48,50,51,52,54,55].”
From The Stigma of Suicide Survivorship and Related Consequences—A Systematic Review (2016) · cites this paper as [51]
There was some evidence that stigma led survivors to conceal the cause of death.
“Concerning qualitative results, there was some evidence that stigma led survivors to conceal the cause of the death, withdrew from social interactions or suppress their grief-related emotions [48,50,51,52,54,55].”
From The Stigma of Suicide Survivorship and Related Consequences—A Systematic Review (2016) · cites this paper as [51]
There was some evidence that stigma led survivors to withdraw from social interactions.
“Concerning qualitative results, there was some evidence that stigma led survivors to conceal the cause of the death, withdrew from social interactions or suppress their grief-related emotions [48,50,51,52,54,55].”
From The Stigma of Suicide Survivorship and Related Consequences—A Systematic Review (2016) · cites this paper as [51]
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- Authors
- Fielden, J. M.
- Affiliations
- Victoria University of Wellington (NZ)
- Corresponding author
- Fielden, Jann M.
- ORCID
- Fielden, Jann M.
- Venue
- International Journal of Mental Health Nursing
- Publisher
- Wiley
- Published
- 2003-03
- Volume
- 12
- Issue
- 1
- Pages
- 74-85
- ISSN
- 1445-8330 (ISSN-L)
- 1447-0349
- OpenAlex
- W1972027727
- Cited by
- 74
- References
- 35
- Citations by year
- 2026: 1 · 2025: 4 · 2023: 5 · 2022: 3 · 2021: 4 · 2020: 1 · 2019: 3 · 2017: 4 · 2016: 4 · 2014: 2 · 2013: 8 · 2012: 4
- FWCI
- 4.08
- Type
- journal article
- Language
- en
- Open access
- closed
- Locations
- International Journal of Mental Health Nursing (publishedVersion)
- PubMed (publishedVersion)
- Cross Connect (Southern Cross University) (submittedVersion)
- Funders
- Victoria University
- Topics
- Social Sciences › Psychology › Clinical Psychology › Grief, Bereavement, and Mental Health
- Social Sciences › Anthropology › Death, Funerary Practices, and Mourning
- Social Sciences › Psychology › Clinical Psychology › Suicide and Self-Harm Studies
- Keywords
- suicide bereavement, grief, suicide survivors, family members of suicide victims, lifeworld, transformative experience, Martin Heidegger, van Manen, Benner, lived experience
- MeSH terms
- Adaptation, Psychological, Adult, Attitude to Death, Family, Fear, Female, Grief, Guilt, Humans, Human Development, Life Change Events, Loneliness, Love, Male, Middle Aged, Models, Psychological, New Zealand, Surveys and Questionnaires, Shame, Social Support, Suicide, Nursing Methodology Research, Survivors, Comprehension, Narration
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