Romantic jealousy and affairs: Research and implications for couple therapy
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Romantic jealousy is often experienced after a situation is interpreted as threatening to one's intimate relationship and can involve elements of other emotions such as anger, fear, and sadness. An individual experiencing jealousy may engage in a number of behaviors and thought processes aimed at reducing jealousy or keeping the relationship intact. However, these cognitions and behaviors may not achieve either of these goals and may escalate problems in the relationship. We review the theoretical and empirical jealousy literature and integrate the research findings with existing models of couple therapy. Assessment and treatment guidelines are offered on the basis of theory, research, and clinical practice. Future research directions are also discussed.
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Specific emotional manifestations of infidelity-based trauma include feelings of extreme anger, betrayal, insecurity, rage, shame, guilt, jealousy and sadness.
“Specific emotional manifestations of infidelity-based trauma include feelings of extreme anger, betrayal, insecurity, rage, shame, guilt, jealousy and sadness [24,31,33,34,35,36,37,38,39,40].”
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- Authors
- Cano, A., & O'leary, K. D.
- Affiliations
- Stony Brook University (US)
- Venue
- Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy
- Publisher
- Informa UK Limited
- Published
- 1997-12
- Volume
- 23
- Issue
- 4
- Pages
- 249-275
- ISSN
- 0092-623X (ISSN-L)
- 1521-0715
- OpenAlex
- W2144455389
- Cited by
- 25
- References
- 58
- Citations by year
- 2024: 1 · 2023: 3 · 2022: 1 · 2021: 1 · 2020: 1 · 2019: 2 · 2015: 1 · 2014: 3 · 2013: 1
- FWCI
- 2.13
- Type
- journal article
- Language
- en
- Open access
- closed
- Locations
- Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy (publishedVersion)
- PubMed (publishedVersion)
- Topics
- Social Sciences › Psychology › Social Psychology › Attachment and Relationship Dynamics
- Social Sciences › Sociology and Political Science › Marriage and Sexual Relationships
- Social Sciences › Psychology › Social Psychology › Emotions and Moral Behavior
- Keywords
- romantic jealousy, infidelity, couple therapy, relationship maintenance
- MeSH terms
- Adaptation, Psychological, Affect, Extramarital Relations, Female, Humans, Interpersonal Relations, Jealousy, Love, Male, Marital Therapy
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