Normative cruelties and gender deviants: The performative effects of bully discourses for girls and boys in school
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Since the 1990s the educational community has witnessed a proliferation of ‘bullying’ discourses, primarily within the field of educational developmental social psychology. Drawing on ethnographic and qualitative interview data of primary and secondary school girls and boys, this article argues that the discourse ‘bullying’ operates to simplify and individualise complex gendered/classed/sexualised/racialised power relations embedded in children's school‐based cultures. Using a feminist post‐structural approach, this article critically traces the discursive production of how the signifiers ‘bully’ and ‘victim’ are implicated in the ‘normative cruelties’ of performing and policing ‘intelligible’ heteronormative masculinities and femininities. It shows how these everyday gender performances are frequently passed over by staff and pupils as ‘natural’. The analysis also illustrates how bully discourses operate in complex racialised and classed ways that mark children out as either gender deviants, or as not adequately performing normative ideals of masculinity and femininity. In conclusion, it is argued that bully discourses offer few symbolic resources and/or practical tools for addressing and coping with everyday school‐based gender violence, and some new research directions are suggested.
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Ringrose and Renold (2010) demonstrate that discourses such as bullying are deeply tied to the policing of normative masculinities, where desensitization serves to sustain hegemonic ideals and obscure the harm perpetuated by gendered violence in schools.
“As Ringrose and Renold (2010) demonstrate, discourses such as bullying are deeply tied to the policing of normative masculinities, where desensitization serves to sustain hegemonic ideals and obscure the harm perpetuated by gendered violence in schools.”
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Ringrose and Renold further argue that the framing of such violence as 'bullying' trivializes the structural power relations that govern children's performances of masculinity and femininity, enabling these harmful dynamics to remain unchallenged.
“They further argue that the framing of such violence as 'bullying' trivializes the structural power relations that govern children's performances of masculinity and femininity, enabling these harmful dynamics to remain unchallenged.”
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- Authors
- Ringrose, J., & Renold, E.
- Affiliations
- University of London (GB)
- Cardiff University (GB)
- Corresponding author
- Ringrose, Jessica
- Venue
- British Educational Research Journal
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- Wiley
- Published
- 2010-08
- Volume
- 36
- Issue
- 4
- Pages
- 573-596
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- 1469-3518
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- FWCI
- 16.37
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- journal article
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- en
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- Topics
- Social Sciences › Gender Studies › Gender, Sexuality, and Education
- Social Sciences › Psychology › Social Psychology › Bullying, Victimization, and Aggression
- Social Sciences › Gender Studies › Gender and Feminist Studies
- Keywords
- school bullying, gender deviance, heteronormative masculinity, femininity, gender performance, racialization, class, children, bullying victims
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