A social constructionist account of grief: loss and the narration of meaning.
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In contrast to dominant Western conceptions of bereavement in largely intrapsychic terms, the authors argue that grief or mourning is not primarily an interior process, but rather one that is intricately social, as the bereaved commonly seek meaning in this unsought transition in not only personal and familial, but also broader community and even cultural spheres. The authors therefore advocate a social constructionist model of grieving in which the narrative processes by which meanings are found, appropriated, or assembled occur at least as fully between people as within them. In this view, mourning is a situated interpretive and communicative activity charged with establishing the meaning of the deceased's life and death, as well as the postdeath status of the bereaved within the broader community concerned with the loss. They describe this multilevel phenomenon drawing first on psychological research on individual self-narratives that organize life experience into plot structures that display some level of consistency over time, whose viability is then negotiated in the intimate interpersonal domain of family and close associates. Second, they explore public communication, including eulogies, grief accounts in popular literature, and elegies. All of these discourses construct the identity of the deceased as he or she was, and as she or he is now in the individual and communal continuing bonds with the deceased. Finally, they consider different cultural contexts to see how expressions of grief are policed to ensure their coherence with the prevailing social and political order. That is, the meanings people find through the situated interpretive and communicative activity that is grieving must either be congruent with the meanings that undergird the larger context or represent an active form of resistance against them.
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Sudden deaths like suicides are shocking and compel individuals to make sense of them as part of bereavement.
“In short, Robert Neimeyer and his many collaborators have demonstrated that sudden deaths, like suicides, are shocking and compel individuals to make sense of them, to sift through available meanings as part of the bereavement process (Gillies and Neimeyer, 2006; Neimeyer et al., 2014).”
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- Authors
- Neimeyer, R. A., Klass, D., & Dennis, M. R.
- Affiliations
- University of Memphis (US)
- Emporia State University (US)
- Corresponding author
- Neimeyer, Robert A.
- Venue
- Death Studies
- Publisher
- Informa UK Limited
- Published
- 2014-05-21
- Volume
- 38
- Issue
- 8
- Pages
- 485-498
- ISSN
- 0748-1187 (ISSN-L)
- 1091-7683
- OpenAlex
- W2032653188
- Cited by
- 402
- References
- 61
- Citations by year
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- FWCI
- 18.09
- Type
- journal article
- Language
- en
- Open access
- closed
- Locations
- Death Studies (publishedVersion)
- PubMed (publishedVersion)
- Topics
- Social Sciences › Psychology › Clinical Psychology › Grief, Bereavement, and Mental Health
- Social Sciences › Anthropology › Death, Funerary Practices, and Mourning
- Social Sciences › Arts and Humanities › Philosophy › Memory, History, Trauma, Identity
- Keywords
- grief, mourning, social constructionism, bereavement, meaning-making, narrative, self-narrative, funeral oration, elegy, resistance, interpersonal communication, death and dying
- MeSH terms
- Adaptation, Psychological, Attitude to Death, Grief, Humans, Interpersonal Relations, Psychological Theory, Social Perception, Social Support, Survivors, Narration
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