Examining changes in affection and “Feeling touched out” after the birth of a child
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This research explored changes in affection, with a particular focus on feeling touched out, for parents after the birth of their child. An online questionnaire asked parents (N = 39 U.S. adults) open-ended questions to investigate changes in affection after the birth of their child. Thematic analysis indicated that approximately a little over half of the sample reported reduced affection after the birth of their child, including feeling “touched out” (i.e., feeling physical saturation and needing bodily autonomy). The remaining participants in the sample did not feel touched out and noticed that their nature of shared affection changed but did not reduce in frequency. Transparency about affection needs and coparenting expectations pre- and post-birth is strongly recommended in parents’ family planning conversations.
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Pregnancy, childbirth, and infant feeding involve intricate hormonal cascades that affect the brain and body much like puberty.
“Biological. Pregnancy, childbirth, and infant feeding involve intricate hormonal cascades (e.g., progesterone, estrogen, prolactin, relaxin, cortisol, and oxytocin) that affect the brain and body much like puberty.”
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- Authors
- van Raalte, L. J., Burke, T. J., DeGroot, J. M., & Mellow, A. J.
- Affiliations
- Department of Communication Studies, Sam Houston State University, Huntsville, TX, USA
- Texas State University (US)
- Southern Illinois University Edwardsville (US)
- Venue
- Journal of Family Communication
- Publisher
- Informa UK Limited
- Published
- 2022-11-04
- Volume
- 23
- Issue
- 1
- Pages
- 52-62
- ISSN
- 1526-7431 (ISSN-L)
- 1532-7698
- OpenAlex
- W4308204082
- Semantic Scholar
- b995e1a2adc5ee94821e0ab247c150fa25054024
- Cited by
- 4
- References
- 30
- Citations by year
- 2026: 1 · 2025: 1 · 2024: 2
- FWCI
- 0.71
- Type
- journal article
- Language
- en
- Open access
- closed
- Locations
- Journal of Family Communication (publishedVersion)
- Funders
- Communication Studies Department at Sam Houston State University
- Department of Communication Studies at Sam Houston State University
- Topics
- Social Sciences › Psychology › Social Psychology › Attachment and Relationship Dynamics
- Social Sciences › Demography › Family Dynamics and Relationships
- Social Sciences › Sociology and Political Science › Work-Family Balance Challenges
- Keywords
- affection, parental love, childbirth, bodily autonomy, co-parenting, family planning, parent-child relationship
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