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Common Misconceptions in Addressing Domestic Violence in Child Custody Disputes

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JAFFE, PETER G., CROOKS, CLAIRE V., POISSON, SAMANTHA E.·2003·Juvenile and Family Court Journal

Abstract

Domestic violence has been recognized as an important factor to consider in determining the best interests of children in custody and visitation disputes. However, there remain many misconceptions about the extent and impact of domestic violence in child custody proceedings. Several misconceptions are identified and juxtaposed with the reality of emerging knowledge in this field, and implications are outlined. These issues are illustrated by the perspectives of 62 women victims and 95 children exposed to domestic violence who had to navigate the justice system after separation from an abuser. Recommendations are offered for enhancing professional education, resource development, and collaboration among courts and community service providers.

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    44% of the women reported that their former partners had been abusive toward the family pet.

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    22% of the women in this group reported that their former partners were often verbally abusive or harassing during exchanges.

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    For 71% of the women, the first abusive incident occurred within the first six months of the relationship.

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    In cases where women wanted supervised access, the abuser refused to cooperate even on a short-term basis.

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    The abuse included putdowns, encouraging children to live with their father, and coaching children to make false allegations of abuse by their mother.

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    More than half of the women experienced abuse after separation, often psychological or verbal abuse related to custody proceedings.

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    In the study, most women experienced some type of abuse following separation, and its nature and extent were comparable to abuse during the marriage.

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    Most women reported that the abuse was primarily verbal (60%) and involved emotional or psychological abuse.

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    Large percentages of women described financial abuse: financially ruining women (61%), hiding money or quitting a job to reduce support (56%), threatening employment (43%), and spending joint bank account money (41%).

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    Several women described a high level of sexual abuse, noting that marital rape was common but rarely disclosed.

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    Most women in the study said they did not know how to get legal services and relied on friends, family, or community services.

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    Many participants believed that judges and lawyers often ignored children's adjustment problems.

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    Children's immediate reactions included yelling (63%), calling someone for help (19%), or becoming physically involved (29%).

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    Judges differed in their knowledge of domestic violence and in how much weight they gave it.

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    Significant behavior problems related to aggression (35%) or anxiety and depression (21%) were common.

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    Children were directly threatened but not physically harmed in 42% of circumstances; harmed directly and intentionally in 27%; and harmed indirectly and accidentally in 45%.

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    Women described ineffective lawyers as those who minimized abuse and were unprepared.

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    Abused women were most satisfied with specialized services such as shelters and advocacy centers, and least satisfied with agencies and professionals who seemed insensitive to their abuse histories.

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    Most women recognized positive qualities in the batterers and sought a plan that would keep the children in regular contact with their fathers.

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    Most women appreciated any legal help but felt only minimal service was available.

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    The women felt a more streamlined and centralized system would have improved their access to appropriate services.

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    Services were usually inconsistent in advice and not coordinated with other agencies.

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    A major theme in the women's recommendations was that all professionals in various systems need training to better understand domestic violence, especially its impact on victims and children.

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    Most abused women had serious concerns about their children's safety and well-being and felt legal, social service, and mental health professionals often overlooked those concerns.

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    In adolescence, exposure to domestic violence is associated with drug and alcohol abuse, truancy, violent dating relationships, and involvement in the juvenile justice system.

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    The study sample of 62 female victims was not random; participants had accessed family court services after separating from an abusive partner.

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    Exposure to violence in very young children suggests permanent negative changes in brain and neural development, altering the central nervous system and predisposing the individual to more impulsive, reactive, and violent behavior.

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    Batterers are more likely to apply for custody and equally likely to have it granted compared with nonviolent fathers.

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    Court outcomes may neglect victims' and children's safety and perpetrator accountability.

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    Even when custody goes to the non-offending parent, the perpetrator may still get regular visitation, creating ongoing harassment, threats, and abuse.

    “Furthermore, even if custody is awarded to the non-offending parent in the case of domestic violence, regular visitation may still be awarded to the perpetrator, providing ongoing opportunities of harassment, threats, and abuse (Shaffer & Bala, in press).”
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    Poverty limits legal assistance, forcing abused women to choose between representing themselves or using inadequate counsel with too few hours or little relevant experience.

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    Women may either not mention domestic violence in custody proceedings or mention it but struggle to prove it.

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    This presentation reduces survivors' effectiveness in court and can lead to negative inferences about their attitudes, parenting, and support for the other parent's relationship.

    “This presentation undermines their effectiveness in dealing with the court system and may result in adverse inferences drawn about their attitudes, parenting skills, and ability to promote a relationship with the other parent (Jaffe & Geffner, 1998).”
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    Guidelines on domestic violence exist for most court-related services and are endorsed by professional bodies, but widespread implementation and adherence have not been achieved.

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    Limited access to legal representation may contribute to abused women staying in or returning to abusive relationships in up to half of cases.

    “Some research has indicated that limited access to legal repre-sentation may be a factor for abused women remaining or returning to abusive relationships in as many as half of the cases (Ontario Association for Interval & Transition Houses, 1996).”
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    Researchers and practitioners continually develop and improve instruments to predict batterers' future dangerousness and consequences for victims and children.

    “For example, researchers and practitioners in the area of domestic violence are continuously developing new instruments and improving existing ones in an effort to predict future dangerousness of batterers, as well as the consequences to their victims and children (Campbell, Sharps, & Glass, 2000).”
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    Numerous emerging legislative solutions recognize domestic violence's relevance in custody disputes and try to address the concerns noted.

    “Indeed, there are numerous emerging legislative solutions being drafted that recognize the relevance of domestic violence in child custody disputes and attempt to redress some of the concerns noted here.”
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    Almost all U.S. states have changed child custody laws to include domestic violence as a factor or to create a rebuttable presumption against a batterer having sole or joint custody.

    “Almost all U.S. states have changed child custody laws to either include domestic violence as a factor that judges have to consider in determining custody or have created a rebuttable presumption that a batterer will not have sole or joint custody.”
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    Approximately 20% of divorcing couples require greater intervention by lawyers, court-related personnel, and judges.

    “Approximately 20% of divorcing couples require greater intervention by lawyers, court-related personnel (such as mediators and evaluators), and judges.”
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    The friendly parent construct is widely adopted by judges, family law lawyers, mediators, and evaluators.

    “In particular, the friendly parent construct is widely adopted by judges, family law lawyers, mediators,and evaluators to reward the parent who is most likely to promote contact and a positive relationship with children to the other parent.”
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    Service providers at shelters for abused women document that domestic violence survivors are re-victimized and endangered by child custody and visitation arrangements that allow batterers regular opportunities to renew threats and maintain power and control.

    “Service providers such as staff at shelters for abused women continue to document how domestic violence survivors are re-victimized and even endangered by child custody and visitation arrangements that allow batterers regular opportunities to renew threats and maintain power and control of former spouses.”
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    The women's responses, although from a nonrandom sample, illustrate issues that have been identified in the literature.

    “Although this sample was not random, the women's responses serve to illustrate issues that have been identified in the literature.”
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    Most domestic violence victims do not disclose their victimization during mediation.

    “Even though mediation regulations require the identification of domestic violence as a mandatory screening criterion, the majority of victims of domestic violence do not raise concerns about their victimization in mediation.”
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    Courts have grown more skeptical of parents who raise domestic violence allegations in custody disputes.

    “This evidence is increasingly critical as courts have become more skeptical about the motivation of parents raising domestic violence allegations in the context of a custody dispute.”
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    Most batterers show no obvious mental health problems.

    “Most batterers present with no obvious mental health problems.”
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    Many victims experience various trauma symptoms linked to their abuse.

    “In comparison, many victims suffer from a variety of trauma symptoms related to their abuse.”
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    Abuse survivors may appear angry, distrustful, and suspicious to court-related professionals.

    “Furthermore, abuse survivors may present as angry, distrustful, and suspicious with all professionals related to the court proceedings.”
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    Mediation regulations make identifying domestic violence a mandatory screening criterion.

    “Even though mediation regulations require the identification of domestic violence as a mandatory screening criterion,”
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    Many children of abused women have emotional and behavioral problems.

    “Since many of these children exhibit emotional and behavioral problems, access to services is essential.”
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Authors
JAFFE, P. G., CROOKS, C. V., & POISSON, S. E.
Affiliations
Western University (CA)
Corresponding author
JAFFE, PETER G.
Venue
Juvenile and Family Court Journal
Publisher
Wiley
Published
2003-09
Volume
54
Issue
4
Pages
57-67
ISSN
  • 0161-7109 (ISSN-L)
  • 1755-6988
OpenAlex
W2145959778
Cited by
72
References
31
Citations by year
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FWCI
2.14
Type
journal article
Language
en
Open access
Locations
Juvenile and Family Court Journal (publishedVersion)
Topics
  • Social Sciences › Health › Intimate Partner and Family Violence
  • Social Sciences › Law › Family and Matrimonial Law
  • Social Sciences › Law › Legal and Social Justice Studies
Keywords
domestic violence, child custody disputes, best interests of the child, visitation, misconceptions, women victims of domestic violence, children exposed to domestic violence, separation from abusive partner, professional education

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