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‘I never realised everybody felt as happy as I do when I am around autistic people’: A thematic analysis of autistic adults’ relationships with autistic and neurotypical friends and family
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Many autistic people are motivated to have friends, relationships and close family bonds, despite the clinical characterisation of autism as a condition negatively affecting social interaction. Many first-hand accounts of autistic people describe feelings of comfort and ease specifically with other autistic people. This qualitative research explored and contrasted autistic experiences of spending social time with neurotypical and autistic friends and family. In total, 12 autistic adults (10 females, aged 21–51) completed semi-structured interviews focused on time spent with friends and family; positive and negative aspects of time spent with neurotypical and autistic friends and family; and feelings during and after spending time together. Three themes were identified: cross-neurotype understanding, minority status and belonging. Investigation of these themes reveals the benefits of autistic people creating and maintaining social relationships with other autistic people, in a more systematic way than previous individual reports. They highlight the need for autistic-led social opportunities and indicate benefits of informal peer support for autistic adults. Lay abstract Although autistic people may struggle to interact with others, many autistic people have said they find interacting with other autistic people more comfortable. To find out whether this was a common experience, we did hour-long interviews with 12 autistic adults. We asked them questions about how it feels when spending time with their friends and family, and whether it felt different depending on whether the friends and family were autistic or neurotypical. We analysed the interviews and found three common themes in what our participants said. First, they found spending with other autistic people easier and more comfortable than spending time with neurotypical people, and felt they were better understood by other autistic people. Second, autistic people often felt they were in a social minority, and in order to spend time with neurotypical friends and family, they had to conform with what the neurotypical people wanted and were used to. Third, autistic people felt like they belonged with other autistic people and that they could be themselves around them. These findings show that having time with autistic friends and family can be very beneficial for autistic people and played an important role in a happy social life.
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“It is imperative to keep in mind that even Autistic people who lack fluency in “neurotypical” social skills can engage in successful interactions and form meaningful, reciprocal social bonds with others on and off the spectrum (Chen et al., 2021; Crompton et al., 2020; Davis & Crompton, 2021; Heasman & Gillespie, 2019).”
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“The double empathy problem further highlights that communication differences between autistic and non-autistic people are reciprocal, emerging through mismatches in how meaning is expressed and understood (Milton, 2012; Crompton et al., 2020; Davis and Crompton, 2021)”
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Metadata
- Authors
- Crompton, C. J., Hallett, S., Ropar, D., Flynn, E., & Fletcher-Watson, S.
- Affiliations
- University of Edinburgh (GB)
- Autistic Mutual Aid Society Edinburgh, UK
- University of Nottingham (GB)
- Queen's University Belfast (GB)
- The University of Edinburgh, UK
- Corresponding author
- Crompton, Catherine J
- Venue
- Autism
- Publisher
- SAGE Publications
- Published
- 2020-03-07
- Volume
- 24
- Issue
- 6
- Pages
- 1438-1448
- ISSN
- 1362-3613 (ISSN-L)
- 1461-7005
- PMC
- PMC7376620
- OpenAlex
- W3009630179
- Cited by
- 351
- References
- 60
- Citations by year
- 2026: 54 · 2025: 74 · 2024: 78 · 2023: 56 · 2022: 57 · 2021: 27 · 2020: 5
- FWCI
- 19.35
- Type
- journal article
- Language
- en
- Open access
- hybrid
- doi.org
- Licence
- Locations
- Autism (publishedVersion, cc-by-nc)
- PubMed Central (publishedVersion, cc-by-nc)
- PubMed (publishedVersion)
- Repository@Nottingham (University of Nottingham) (acceptedVersion, other-oa)
- OSF Preprints (OSF Preprints) (acceptedVersion)
- Repository@Nottingham (University of Nottingham) (submittedVersion, cc-by-nc-nd)
- Edinburgh Research Explorer (University of Edinburgh) (submittedVersion, cc-by-nc)
- Research Portal (Queen's University Belfast) (submittedVersion, cc-by-nc)
- OSF Preprints (OSF Preprints) (submittedVersion, cc-by)
- Funders
- Templeton World Charity Foundation (TWCF0200)
- Topics
- Life Sciences › Neuroscience › Cognitive Neuroscience › Autism Spectrum Disorder Research
- Social Sciences › Psychology › Clinical Psychology › Family and Disability Support Research
- Social Sciences › Sociology and Political Science › Disability Rights and Representation
- Keywords
- autistic adults, interpersonal relationships, family relationships, minority status, sense of belonging, peer support, social interaction
- MeSH terms
- Autism Spectrum Disorder, Adult, Autistic Disorder, Emotions, Happiness, Humans, Friends
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