Relational Communication in Intercultural Couples
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This qualitative study utilises the relational dialectics of Baxter and Montgomery (1996) to examine the relationship communication of six heterosexual intercultural couples living in Finland. In this study, I attempt to answer the following questions: what cultural issues are relevant in the couples' relationship? What intercultural relational dialectics do the intercultural couples experience in their relationship? The interviews are based on a concept map, and were recorded, transcribed, and analysed qualitatively. The findings are categorised under two headers: cultural issues and intercultural relational dialectics. The cultural issues consist of the following topics: language and communication, adapting spouse(s), friends, raising children, female–male roles, visibility, and traditions. The intercultural relational dialectics entails privilege–disadvantage, and belonging–exclusion.
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Intercultural couples are likely to have divergent beliefs and practices regarding parent-child relationships, parental roles, discipline and punishment, and daily routines of children.
“Growing up in different cultural traditions, intercultural couples are likely to have divergent beliefs and practices regarding parent-child relationships, parental roles, discipline and punishment, and daily routines of children (Coll & Pachter, 2002;Cools, 2006;Jambunathan, Burts, & Pierce, 2000;Romano, 2008).”
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- Authors
- Cools, C. A.
- Affiliations
- University of Jyväskylä (FI)
- Corresponding author
- Cools, Carine A.
- Venue
- Language and Intercultural Communication
- Publisher
- Informa UK Limited
- Published
- 2006-08-15
- Volume
- 6
- Issue
- 3-4
- Pages
- 262-274
- ISSN
- 1470-8477 (ISSN-L)
- 1747-759X
- OpenAlex
- W1965564269
- Cited by
- 46
- References
- 33
- Citations by year
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- FWCI
- 1.30
- Type
- journal article
- Language
- en
- Open access
- closed
- Locations
- Language and Intercultural Communication (publishedVersion)
- Topics
- Social Sciences › Psychology › Social Psychology › Attachment and Relationship Dynamics
- Social Sciences › Communication › Language, Communication, and Linguistic Studies
- Social Sciences › Communication › Communication Studies and Media
- Keywords
- intercultural couples, relationship communication, relational dialectics, language and communication, parenting, gender roles, visibility, tradition, privilege and disadvantage, belonging and exclusion, heterosexual couples
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