Interpersonal Views of Narcissism and Authentic High Self-Esteem: It is Not all about you
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Employing peer-rating methodology, this study examined relationship issues in narcissists versus individuals with authentic high self-esteem. Undergraduates ( N = 147) were assigned to rate someone (a “target”) they knew well who was most similar to a narcissistic prototype, an authentic self-esteem prototype, or a control person. Participants rating narcissistic targets reported significantly more interpersonal problems with the target and more avoidant and revenge behaviors directed toward them than did participants rating authentic self-esteem or control targets. Authentic high self-esteem was associated with positive social relationships. Large effect sizes suggested substantial interpersonal differences observed by peers interacting with narcissists compared to authentic high self-esteem individuals.
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Interpersonal dysfunction is a well-documented aspect of pathological narcissism.
“Interpersonal dysfunction is a well‐documented aspect of pathological narcissism (Byrne & O'Brien, 2014; Grenyer, 2013; Kealy & Ogrodniczuk, 2011)”
From Pathological narcissism: An analysis of interpersonal dysfunction within intimate relationships (2022) · cites this paper as Byrne & O'Brien, 2014
Antagonism, hostility and resultant interpersonal dysfunction are well-documented aspects of pathological narcissism that exact a large toll on individuals in the relationship.
“This antagonism, hostility and the resultant interpersonal dysfunction are well-documented aspects of pathological narcissism [29–32], that exacts a large toll on individuals in the relationship [33, 34].”
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Informant-based methods of investigating narcissism and its effects have previously been found to be effective and reliable, with consensus demonstrated across multiple observers.
“Informant-based methods of investigating narcissism and its effects has previously been found to be effective and reliable [30] with consensus demonstrated across multiple observers [38].”
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The risk of biasing or priming participants is a limitation of all studies of this kind.
“However, the risk of biasing or priming participants is a limitation of all studies of this kind, as studies implementing informant methodology for assessing narcissism typically rely on providing participants with a set of diagnostic criteria or narcissism specific measures as their sole indicator of narcissism (e.g. [30, 38]).”
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- Authors
- Byrne, J. S., & O'Brien, E. J.
- Affiliations
- Alfred University (US)
- Marywood University (US)
- Corresponding author
- Byrne, J. Stephen
- ORCID
- Byrne, J. Stephen
- Venue
- Psychological Reports
- Publisher
- SAGE Publications
- Published
- 2014-08
- Volume
- 115
- Issue
- 1
- Pages
- 243-260
- ISSN
- 0033-2941 (ISSN-L)
- 1558-691X
- OpenAlex
- W1999576693
- Cited by
- 19
- References
- 24
- Citations by year
- 2026: 1 · 2025: 2 · 2024: 1 · 2023: 1 · 2022: 1 · 2021: 1 · 2020: 3 · 2019: 3 · 2018: 2 · 2016: 3 · 2015: 1
- FWCI
- 1.57
- Type
- journal article
- Language
- en
- Open access
- closed
- Locations
- Psychological Reports (publishedVersion)
- PubMed (publishedVersion)
- Topics
- Social Sciences › Psychology › Clinical Psychology › Personality Traits and Psychology
- Social Sciences › Psychology › Social Psychology › Emotions and Moral Behavior
- Social Sciences › Psychology › Social Psychology › Death Anxiety and Social Exclusion
- Keywords
- narcissism, interpersonal relationships, peer ratings, interpersonal problems, avoidance behavior, revenge behavior, self-esteem
- MeSH terms
- Adult, Humans, Interpersonal Relations, Male, Narcissism, Self Concept, Young Adult
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