By the way knowledge: Grandparents, stillbirth and neonatal death
Abstract
Over the past 50 years, academic interest in the experiences of parents who lose a baby to stillbirth or neonatal death has grown. Stillbirth is defined in the UK as the death of a baby after 24 weeks' gestation and neonatal death is death within the first 4 weeks of life. Less is known about the experience of grandparents after such an event. As grandparents might expect to play an important role in their putative grandchild's life, including the provision of childcare to support parental employment, it seems likely that the baby's death will impact upon them. We argue that existing academic knowledge of grandparents' experiences of reproductive loss is 'by the way' knowledge, garnered incidentally from other research projects, for example, losing a grandchild per se or where researchers have interviewed grandparents as part of wider family research. The experience of grandparents who lose a grandchild at or around the time of birth should not go unnoticed. Research into their experiences can inform about the place in the family, if any, that is afforded to the unborn child before birth and whether, like fathers and the siblings of babies who have died, grandparents are also 'forgotten mourners'.
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Loss felt by other family members, such as siblings or grandparents, was generally not acknowledged by people outside the family.
“Any loss felt by other family members, such as siblings or grandparents, was generally not acknowledged by people outside the family, as other literature in perinatal loss has noted (Murphy & Jones, 2014).”
From Further Hierarchies of Loss: Tracking Relationality in Pregnancy Loss Experiences (2025) · cites this paper as Murphy & Jones, 2014
The finding that higher grief was associated with more acknowledgement from family supports a family-centred approach to providing information and support for loss and grief.
“In line with research exploring the impact of pregnancy loss and neonatal death on extended family members including siblings and grandparents [97–101], this finding supports a family-centred approach to providing information and support for loss and grief, so that all family members involved in the experience of loss are better able to support one another.”
From Factors contributing to men’s grief following pregnancy loss and neonatal death: further development of an emerging model in an Australian sample (2021) · cites this paper as [97]
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- Authors
- Murphy, S., & Jones, K. S.
- Affiliations
- The Open University (GB)
- University of Exeter (GB)
- Corresponding author
- Murphy, Samantha
- Venue
- Human Fertility
- Publisher
- Informa UK Limited
- Published
- 2014-07-08
- Volume
- 17
- Issue
- 3
- Pages
- 210-213
- ISSN
- 1464-7273 (ISSN-L)
- 1742-8149
- OpenAlex
- W2138833850
- Cited by
- 21
- References
- 22
- Citations by year
- 2026: 1 · 2025: 2 · 2024: 2 · 2023: 1 · 2022: 1 · 2021: 5 · 2020: 2 · 2019: 3 · 2018: 2 · 2017: 2
- FWCI
- 0.79
- Type
- journal article
- Language
- en
- Open access
- closed
- Locations
- Human Fertility (publishedVersion)
- PubMed (publishedVersion)
- Open Research Online (The Open University) (submittedVersion)
- Topics
- Social Sciences › Psychology › Clinical Psychology › Grief, Bereavement, and Mental Health
- Social Sciences › Anthropology › Death, Funerary Practices, and Mourning
- Health Sciences › Medicine › Pediatrics, Perinatology and Child Health › Global Maternal and Child Health
- Keywords
- grandparents, stillbirth, neonatal death, reproductive losses, bereavement, family bereavement, parental employment
- MeSH terms
- Family, Female, Grief, Humans, Infant, Newborn, Male, Stillbirth, Perinatal Death
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