Abused Men: The Hidden Side of Domestic Violence
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An award-winning investigative journalist provides a disturbing new look at an underreported type of domestic violence—the abuse of men. The first edition of Philip W. Cook's book, Abused Men: The Hidden Side of Domestic Violence (Praeger, 1997), drew attention and praise nationwide from individuals and from media, ranging from CNN and Fox network's The O'Reilly Factor to scholarly publications such as The Journal of Marriage and Family. On the 10th anniversary of that groundbreaking book, Cook began revising and expanding his work. The result is this second edition—a disturbing look at a trend that continues to increase. The new edition of Abused Men: The Hidden Side of Domestic Violence offers up-to-date data on the prevalence of intimate partner violence against men, incorporating personal interviews and cases drawn from the media. It also includes updates on law, legislation, court activity, social responses, police activity, support groups, batterer programs, and crisis intervention programs. The final chapter contains a detailed and specific description of needed reforms in the current approach to intimate partner violence, whether the victims are male or female.
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Calling the police in incidents of IPA can put male victims at risk for being arrested.
“calling the police in the incidents of IPA can indeed put the male victims at risk for being arrested (third subtheme of Theme 1) (Cook, 2009; Douglas & Hines, 2011; Kelly, 2003; Lysova et al., 2020).”
From Male Victims’ Experiences With and Perceptions of the Criminal Justice Response to Intimate Partner Abuse (2022) · cites this paper as Cook, 2009
Unemployment was associated with IPV victimization among male victims in Japan.
“The unemployment rates of Groups 1 and 2 were 19% and 23%, respectively, substantially surpassing the general unemployment rate in Japan for 2021 (2.8%), 51 indicating that unemployment was associated with IPV victimization, which was consistent with previous studies. 12 , 52”
From Help‐seeking behavior of male victims of intimate partner violence in Japan (2024) · cites this paper as [12]
The finding that middle-age victims were more common than younger victims contradicts the hypothesis of previous studies that younger men are more vulnerable.
“In regard to the age of the victims, middle‐age victims were common than younger victims, contradicting the hypothesis of previous studies 1 , 12 that younger men are more vulnerable.”
From Help‐seeking behavior of male victims of intimate partner violence in Japan (2024) · cites this paper as [12]
Previous studies have shown that younger men are more vulnerable to IPV victimization.
“In regard to the age of the victims, middle‐age victims were common than younger victims, contradicting the hypothesis of previous studies 1 , 12 that younger men are more vulnerable.”
From Help‐seeking behavior of male victims of intimate partner violence in Japan (2024) · cites this paper as [12]
This study's findings are consistent with other studies that point to negative outcomes male victims face from the police and court system.
“This study’s findings are consistent with other studies that point to the negative outcomes male victims face from the police and the court system (Cook, 2009; Lysova et al., 2020, 2022; Rodney & Randall, 2007).”
From Male Victims’ Experiences With and Perceptions of the Criminal Justice Response to Intimate Partner Abuse (2022) · cites this paper as Cook, 2009
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- Authors
- Cook, P. W.
- Corresponding author
- Cook, Philip W.
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- Greenwood Publishing Group Inc. eBooks
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- Greenwood Publishing Group, Inc.
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- 2009
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- Social Sciences › Health › Intimate Partner and Family Violence
- Social Sciences › Demography › Elder Abuse and Neglect
- Social Sciences › Sociology and Political Science › Stalking, Cyberstalking, and Harassment
- Keywords
- intimate partner violence, male victims of domestic violence, domestic violence against men, prevalence of intimate partner violence, batterer intervention programs, police response to domestic violence, domestic violence legislation, criminal justice reform, gender and violence
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