Validating social support and prioritizing maternal wellbeing: beyond intensive mothering and maternal responsibility
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In this piece, I reflect on the current model of motherhood that prevails in Western countries, often termed 'intensive mothering'. I will briefly trace the history of this approach, focusing in particular on how theory from developmental psychology has, to some extent, functioned to reinforce it by foregrounding the mother-child dyad and emphasizing the importance of maternal practices for children's developmental outcomes. I will then consider the particular implications of this cultural approach to motherhood for women's experiences of motherhood and maternal wellbeing. Finally, I reiterate that we need to continue to challenge this western-centric model of motherhood, which risks both isolating and overburdening women, by highlighting the ways in which both women and children benefit from wider social support systems, yet also by making it permissible for women to access social support without compromising a 'good mother' identity. This article is part of the theme issue 'Multidisciplinary perspectives on social support and maternal-child health'.
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A central assumption in much motherhood scholarship is that the mother is the primary caregiver for the child(ren).
“A central assumption in much scholarship on mothering and motherhood is that the mother (a woman) is the primary caregiver for the child(ren) (Budds, 2021;Mason, 2020).”
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The discussion on p. 4 says influential developmental psychology theories positioned the mother, rather than fathers or other carers, as the ideal caregiver. The paper also describes mothers as main caregivers in the UK (p. 3), but it does not establish that this is a central assumption in much motherhood scholarship generally. (LLM, conf=0.79)
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- Authors
- Budds, K.
- Affiliations
- Leeds Beckett University (GB)
- Corresponding author
- Budds, Kirsty
- ORCID
- Budds, Kirsty
- Venue
- Philosophical Transactions of the Royal Society B
- Publisher
- The Royal Society
- Published
- 2021-05-03
- Volume
- 376
- Issue
- 1827
- Pages
- 20200029-20200029
- ISSN
- 0962-8436 (ISSN-L)
- 1471-2970
- PMC
- PMC8090819
- OpenAlex
- W3158902854
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- 55
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- 39
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- en
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- Topics
- Social Sciences › Demography › Family Dynamics and Relationships
- Social Sciences › Sociology and Political Science › Work-Family Balance Challenges
- Social Sciences › Sociology and Political Science › Philosophy, Sociology, Political Theory
- Keywords
- intensive mothering, maternal well-being, motherhood, social support, maternal responsibility, mother-child dyads, developmental psychology, women's experiences of motherhood, child development
- MeSH terms
- Maternal Health, Female, Humans, Maternal Behavior, Mothers, Social Support
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