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“It's Not What I Expected”: A Qualitative Study of Youth Mentoring Relationship Failures
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Although estimates are that only about half of youth mentoring relationships established through formal programs last beyond a few months, almost no attention has been paid to understanding mentoring relationship failures. In-depth semistructured interviews were conducted with 20 adult and 11 adolescent male and female participants in a community-based one-to-one mentoring program whose relationships ended early. Line-by-line coding and a narrative approach to a thematic analysis of the interview transcripts yielded six salient factors that contributed to the demise of these mentoring relationships: (a) mentor or protégé abandonment, (b) perceived lack of protégé motivation, (c) unfulfilled expectations, (d) deficiencies in mentor relational skills, including the inability to bridge cultural divides, (e) family interference, and (f) inadequate agency support.
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“Conversely, mentors’ inability to bridge cultural differences appeared to be a pivotal contributor to the termination of matches [117].”
From Unpacking Community-Based Youth Mentoring Relationships: An Integrative Review (2021) · cites this paper as [117]
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“Mentors in BBBS America who held mentees in positive regard and were capable of engaging authentically and empathically with them were more likely to facilitate the establishment of strong relationships [94,117].”
From Unpacking Community-Based Youth Mentoring Relationships: An Integrative Review (2021) · cites this paper as [117]
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“The perceived similarity between BBBS mentors’ ideal versus actual roles were significant predictors of mentors’ expressed intentions to preserve the relationship [144], whereas mentors’ feelings of frustration and ineffectiveness compared with their initial expectations were shown to account for early termination, as reported in qualitative studies [116,117,120].”
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“In contrast, mentors holding negative attitudes toward children and adolescents often found it challenging to connect with or understand them [94,117].”
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“questions about whether formal mentors from different cultures provide different kinds of support and how their mentees perceive this support have rarely been addressed [117,164,165].”
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“Interviews with adult male mentors and adolescent boys paired in BBBS America indicated that boys, similar to girls, valued emotional closeness in their mentoring relationships [117,154].”
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“Another qualitative study reported that early terminations were more likely to occur when mentors perceived the program caseworker in BBBS America involvement as either excessive or scanty [117].”
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Metadata
- Authors
- Spencer, R.
- Affiliations
- Boston University (US)
- Corresponding author
- Spencer, Renée
- ORCID
- Spencer, Renée
- Venue
- Journal of Adolescent Research
- Publisher
- SAGE Publications
- Published
- 2007-07
- Volume
- 22
- Issue
- 4
- Pages
- 331-354
- ISSN
- 0743-5584 (ISSN-L)
- 1552-6895
- OpenAlex
- W2022414674
- Cited by
- 266
- References
- 34
- Citations by year
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- FWCI
- 7.34
- Type
- journal article
- Language
- en
- Open access
- closed
- Locations
- Journal of Adolescent Research (publishedVersion)
- Topics
- Social Sciences › Education › Mentoring and Academic Development
- Social Sciences › Psychology › Developmental and Educational Psychology › Youth Development and Social Support
- Social Sciences › Psychology › Applied Psychology › Career Development and Diversity
- Keywords
- youth mentoring, breakup, abandonment, unfulfilled expectations, cultural differences, family interference, agency support, community mentoring
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