Not so innocent: Does seeing one's own capability for wrongdoing predict forgiveness?
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People are more forgiving toward transgressors if they see themselves as capable of committing similar offenses, as demonstrated in 7 studies. Methods included hypothetical scenarios, actual recalled offenses, individual and group processes, and correlational and experimental designs. Three factors mediated the link between personal capability and forgiveness: seeing the other's offense as less severe, greater empathic understanding, and perceiving oneself as similar to the transgressor. In terms of predicting forgiveness, it was important that people's own offenses were similar to the target offense in terms of both severity and type. The personal capability effect was independent of other established predictors of forgiveness and was more pronounced among men than women.
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People asked to purposefully look for similarities between themselves and transgressors were more likely to be forgiving than others who did not do so.
“Experimental results link self-compassion with forgiveness. That is, people asked to purposefully look for similarities between themselves and transgressors were more likely to be forgiving than others who did not do so (Exline et al., 2008).”
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Complex Social Consequences of Self-Knowledge
Tenney, E. R., & Spellman, B. A. (2010) · Social Psychological and Personality Science · doi:10.1177/1948550610390965 · Cited by 34 · see citing works
Humbling Yourself before God: Humility as a Reliable Predictor of Lower Divine Struggle
Grubbs, J. B., & Exline, J. J. (2014) · Journal of Psychology and Theology · doi:10.1177/009164711404200105 · Cited by 33 · see citing works
Greenaway, K. H., Louis, W. R., & Wohl, M. J. A. (2011) · Social Psychological and Personality Science · doi:10.1177/1948550611425861 · Cited by 32 · see citing works
The health implications of apologizing after an adverse event
Allan, A., & McKillop, D. (2010) · International Journal for Quality in Health Care · doi:10.1093/intqhc/mzq001 · Cited by 32 · see citing works
“Some researchers see empathy as the key to forgiving [22, 67, 68] because empathic patients are more likely to recognize that unintended outcomes occur, that other circumstances may have contributed to the incident [69], that it is human to err and that they themselves may also have caused people harm [70].”
BackgroundTabak, B. A., & McCullough, M. E. (2011) · Biological Psychology · doi:10.1016/j.biopsycho.2011.05.001 · Cited by 30 · see citing works
Root, B. L., & Exline, J. J. (2011) · Basic and Applied Social Psychology · doi:10.1080/01973533.2011.568850 · Cited by 21 · see citing works
“These findings suggest that the gender differences reported in earlier studies (Exline et al., 2008; Exline & Zell, 2009) were indeed partly due to the general process of priming forgiveness among men.”
BackgroundResultInfluentialDo congruent apologies facilitate forgiveness?
Cowden, R. G., Worthington, E. L., Joynt, S., & Jakins, C. (2018) · South African Journal of Psychology · doi:10.1177/0081246318807800 · Cited by 28 · see citing works
van Aert, R. C. M., & van Assen, M. A. L. M. (2017) · Behavior Research Methods · doi:10.3758/s13428-017-0967-6 · Cited by 29 · see citing works
Humility in Servant Leadership among Christian Student Leaders: A Longitudinal Pilot Study
Krumrei-Mancuso, E. J. (2018) · Journal of Psychology and Theology · doi:10.1177/0091647118807177 · Cited by 25 · see citing works
HUBRIS OR HUMILITY: CAUTIONS SURROUNDING THE CONSTRUCT AND SELF-DEFINITION OF AUTHENTIC LEADERSHIP.
Chang, G. C., & Diddams, M. (2009) · Academy of Management Proceedings · doi:10.5465/ambpp.2009.44247841 · Cited by 25 · see citing works
Li, M., Leidner, B., & Fernández-Campos, S. (2019) · Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin · doi:10.1177/0146167219858652 · Cited by 24 · see citing works
Forgiveness in response to cultural microaggressions
Schoulte, J. C., Schultz, J. M., & ALTMAIER, E. M. (2011) · Counselling Psychology Quarterly · doi:10.1080/09515070.2011.634266 · Cited by 23 · see citing works
“Exline et al. (2008) found that that the propensity of individuals to forgive an offense was predicted by their belief that they could commit a similar offense in type and severity.”
BackgroundExploring the relationships among humility, negative interaction in the church, and depressed affect
KRAUSE, N. M. (2014) · Aging & Mental Health · doi:10.1080/13607863.2014.896867 · Cited by 21 · see citing works
Pearce, H., Strelan, P., & Burns, N. R. (2018) · Personality and Individual Differences · doi:10.1016/j.paid.2018.06.042 · Cited by 21 · see citing works
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The devil in the details: Individual differences in unforgiveness and health correlates
Stackhouse, M. R. D., Ross, R. J., & Boon, S. D. (2016) · Personality and Individual Differences · doi:10.1016/j.paid.2016.02.005 · Cited by 20 · see citing works
Jordan, J., Flynn, F. J., & Cohen, T. R. (2015) · European Journal of Social Psychology · doi:10.1002/ejsp.2101 · Cited by 20 · see citing works
“We propose that it is not the salience of harm-doing in and of itself (cf. Exline et al., 2008), but rather the feelings of guilt that often accompany harm-doing, that lead to greater forgiveness.”
BackgroundMethodResultInfluentialHumility, Forgiveness, and Emerging Adult Female Romantic Relationships.
Bell, C. A., & Fincham, F. (2019) · Journal of Marital & Family Therapy · doi:10.1111/jmft.12292 · Cited by 17 · see citing works
Raj, M., & Wiltermuth, S. S. (2016) · Social and Personality Psychology Compass · doi:10.1111/spc3.12290 · Cited by 19 · see citing works
“…findings from the perspective‐taking literature that suggest that perspective‐taking is beneficial following interpersonal conflict because it induces empathy (Exline et al., 2008), transgressors should be asked to identify the many reasons why victims may perceive their actions as transgressions.”
BackgroundForgiveness, perfectionism, and the role of self-compassion
Mistler, B. A. (2010) · University of Florida Digital Collections (University of Florida) · Cited by 18 · see citing works
Self-forgiveness in romantic relationships: 2. Impact on interpersonal forgiveness
Pelucchi, S., Paleari, F. G., Regalia, C., & Fincham, F. D. (2015) · Family Science · doi:10.1080/19424620.2015.1082048 · Cited by 18 · see citing works
“Relying on existing studies on forgiveness, self-compassion and human fallibility awareness (Breen, Kashdan, Lenser, & Fincham, 2010; Exline et al., 2008; Neff, 2003; Wohl et al., 2006), we went on to speculate that self-forgiving people might be more prone to recognize”
MethodMoral humility: In life and at work
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Effects of a culture-adaptive forgiveness intervention for Chinese college students
Ji, M., Hui, E. K. P., Fu, H. C., Watkins, D., Tao, L., & Lo, S. K. (2016) · British Journal of Guidance and Counselling · doi:10.1080/03069885.2015.1130798 · Cited by 18 · see citing works
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Confronting the Past to Create a Better Future
Branscombe, N. R., & Cronin, T. J. (2010) · doi:10.1002/9781444328158.ch17 · Cited by 17 · see citing works
The promising but challenging case of humility as a positive psychology virtue
Hill, P. C., & Sandage, S. J. (2016) · Journal of Moral Education · doi:10.1080/03057240.2016.1174675 · Cited by 17 · see citing works
Examining the Relation of Compassion and Forgiveness among Filipino Counselors
Roxas, M. M., David, A. P., & Caligner, E. C. (2014) · Asian journal of social sciences & humanities · Cited by 16 · see citing works
Personal Relationships and Communication Messages at the End of Life
Prince‐Paul, M., & Exline, J. J. (2010) · Nursing Clinics of North America · doi:10.1016/j.cnur.2010.03.008 · Cited by 16 · see citing works
Does Empathy Promotion Necessarily Lead to Greater Forgiveness? An Experimental Examination
Cornish, M. A., Guyll, M., Wade, N. G., Lannin, D. G., Madon, S., & Chason, K. C. (2018) · Current Psychology · doi:10.1007/s12144-018-9816-8 · Cited by 14 · see citing works
Mindful social inferences: Decentering decreases hostile attributions
van der Schans, K. L., Karremans, J. C., & Holland, R. W. (2019) · European Journal of Social Psychology · doi:10.1002/ejsp.2657 · Cited by 14 · see citing works
Skrzelinska, J., & Ferreira, J. A. (2020) · British Journal of Guidance and Counselling · doi:10.1080/03069885.2020.1789553 · Cited by 14 · see citing works
“Some studies (Exline et al., 2008) show a relation between self-compassion, understood as the ability to maintain a kind and non-judgemental view of self and recognise similarities between oneself and others with forgiveness, suggesting that people who are able to see similarities between…”
BackgroundKumar, V. K., & Ryan, R. B. (2009) · Current Psychology · doi:10.1007/s12144-009-9045-2 · Cited by 13 · see citing works
“A question of interest for this study was to examine if subscales formed on the basis of smallest space analysis correlated with empathy, considered to be a significant pathway to forgiveness ( Exline et al. 2008 ).”
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“, 2003; Struthers, Eaton, Mendoza, Santelli, & Shirvani, 2010; Struthers, Eaton, Santelli, Uchiyama, & Shirvani, 2008; Wallace, Exline, & Baumeister, 2008; Wenzel & Okimoto, 2010; Williamson & Gonzales, 2007; Zechmeister & Romero, 2002) or using imagined or hypothetical scenarios (Eaton et al., 2006; Exline et al., 20…”
Jaakson, K., Vadi, M., Baumane-Vītoliņa, I., & Šumilo, Ē. (2016) · Journal of Retailing and Consumer Services · doi:10.1016/j.jretconser.2016.09.017 · Cited by 11 · see citing works
Christian theology and positive psychology: An exchange of gifts
Charry, E. T., & Kosits, R. D. (2016) · The Journal of Positive Psychology · doi:10.1080/17439760.2016.1228010 · Cited by 11 · see citing works
Uncovering the Multifaceted-Self in the Domain of Negative Traits
Cheung, W., Wildschut, T., Sedikides, C., & Pinter, B. (2014) · Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin · doi:10.1177/0146167213518224 · Cited by 10 · see citing works
Der Vergebungsprozess als ein psychotherapeutischer Behandlungsansatz
Mavrogiorgou, P., Meister, K., & Juckel, G. (2018) · Verhaltenstherapie · doi:10.1159/000486579 · Cited by 10 · see citing works
“…– sei es, ob die Abwesenheit von negativem Affekt reicht oder ob positiver Affekt nötig ist, wie Vergeben auf andere wirkt und ob es eventuell sogar zu weiteren Verletzungen einlädt, welche Motive hinter diesem stehen, und insbesondere auch, ob es «Nicht-Vergebbares» gibt [Exline et al., 2003].”
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Exploring the Role of Touch and Apologies in Forgiveness of Workplace Offenses
Marler, L. E., Cox, S. S., Simmering, M. J., Bennett, R. J., & Fuller, J. B. (2011) · Journal of managerial issues · Cited by 9 · see citing works
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“This clarification may have been overlooked in previous research showing that expression of remorse through apology or repentance was a key factor in promoting forgiveness (Baumeister et al. 1998; Exline et al. 2008; Ristovski and Wertheim 2005; Santelli et al. 2009; Struthers et al. 2010; Weiner et al. 1991).”
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Struthers, C. W., Santelli, A. G., Khoury, C., Pang, M., Young, R., Kashefi, Y., Marjanovic, Z., Phills, C. E., Nash, K. A., & Vasquez, N. A. (2014) · Journal of Language and Social Psychology · doi:10.1177/0261927x14520983 · Cited by 6 · see citing works
Why and When Do Leaders Express Humility? Leader Expressed Humility as Psycho-Social Signaling
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“Humility has often been found to either predict or be associated with many prosocial behaviors including helpfulness (LaBouff et al., 2012), cooperation (Hilbig & Zettler, 2009), generosity (Exline & Hill, 2012), and forgiveness (Exline et al., 2008; Powers et al., 2007; Shepherd & Belicki, 2008).”
BackgroundVergeben: Eine Quelle von Wohlbefinden
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Vergeben: Eine Quelle von Wohlbefinden
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When Are Apologies Effective? An Investigation of the Components that Increase an Apology's Efficacy
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Does Major Matter? Considering the Implications of Collecting Vignette Data from Our Students.
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Can Psychological Interventions Improve Intergroup Attitudes Post Terror Attacks?
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“Although these methods are consistent with the paradigm used in the literature (e.g., Čehajić-Clancy et al., 2011; Exline et al., 2008; Saleem et al., 2015), it is possible that, for example, a 1-time intervention is not sufficient given the devastating magnitude and nature of terror attacks.”
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Forgiveness in Relation to Attachment Style and Consanguine Marriage in Iranian Married Individuals
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“…of forgiveness involves the modi fi cation of previously held attributions about the injurer through recognition of his internal frame of reference, and an understanding of the unfolding of events related to the transgression within this context (Exline et al., 2008; Macaskill et al., 2002).”
The relationship between humble leadership and team adaptation: two paths model perspective
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BEREAVED INDIVIDUALS' FEELINGS OF ANGER TOWARD DECEASED FAMILY MEMBERS: A MIXED METHODS APPROACH
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“(based on Exline et al., 2008).”
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“People tend to be more forgiving if they see themselves as capable of similar offenses (Exline et al., 2008).”
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Exploring the Place of Forgiveness Therapy in Social Work Practice
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“Forgiveness therapy underscores empathy as essential to forgiveness, particularly the ability to be empathic towards a perpetrator of a specific interpersonal offense, and the active cultivation of such empathy (Exline et al. 2008).”
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- Authors
- Exline, J. J., Baumeister, R. F., Zell, A. L., Kraft, A. J., & Witvliet, C. V. O.
- Affiliations
- Case Western Reserve University (US)
- Florida State University (US)
- Arizona State University (US)
- Hope College (US)
- Venue
- Journal of Personality and Social Psychology
- Published
- 2008-03
- Volume
- 94
- Issue
- 3
- Pages
- 495-515
- ISSN
- 0022-3514 (ISSN-L)
- 1939-1315
- OpenAlex
- W2035114357
- Cited by
- 146
- References
- 74
- Citations by year
- 2026: 3 · 2025: 6 · 2024: 3 · 2023: 3 · 2022: 6 · 2021: 4 · 2020: 4 · 2019: 6 · 2018: 11 · 2017: 13 · 2016: 15 · 2015: 9 · 2014: 11 · 2013: 7 · 2012: 7
- FWCI
- 16.45
- Type
- journal article
- Language
- en
- Open access
- closed
- Locations
- Journal of Personality and Social Psychology (publishedVersion)
- PubMed (publishedVersion)
- Topics
- Social Sciences › Psychology › Social Psychology › Forgiveness and Related Behaviors
- Social Sciences › Sociology and Political Science › Social and Intergroup Psychology
- Social Sciences › Psychology › Social Psychology › Emotions and Moral Behavior
- Keywords
- forgiveness, transgressors, perceived similarity, empathy, gender differences, self-perception, interpersonal transgressions
- MeSH terms
- Adolescent, Adult, Anger, Attitude, Empathy, Female, Group Processes, Guilt, Humans, Individuality, Interpersonal Relations, Male, Motivation, Mental Recall, Sex Factors, Social Behavior, Social Perception, Students
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