Fathers’ help seeking behavior and attitudes during their transition to parenthood
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New fathers face multiple changes as they take on this complex, demanding, and continually shifting role. The current study aimed to understand these experiences, especially the ways fathers seek help and information while facing stressful situations. Eleven fathers completed a semi‐structured interview about their transition to fatherhood and whether and how they sought help and advice through that process. Results were analyzed using an inductive thematic analysis approach. Fathers viewed themselves as supportive figures and sources of financial and emotional stability for their families. Fathers experienced anxiety and uncertainty in their transition to parenthood, and utilized a variety of ways to cope with their stress; these were categorized into individual and interpersonal coping strategies. Most relied on their partner for emotional support, but some felt uncomfortable relying on her and using her for support while she was coping with pregnancy and new parenting. This study found that fathers tended to see themselves in a rather traditional role of provider and supporter of their partners and children, and this created some stresses for work‐life balance, and, for some, created a dilemma where they felt unable to seek emotional support from the person—their partner—on whom they would typically rely. These findings have important implications for fathers’ wellbeing and providing support programs for new fathers.
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Fathers experience barriers to seeking both formal and informal support.
“Indeed, given research that fathers experience barriers to seeking both formal and informal support [82], pre-existing regulatory abilities may be particularly important across pregnancy and the postpartum period.”
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- Authors
- Ghaleiha, A., Barber, C., Tamatea, A. J., & Bird, A.
- Affiliations
- University of Waikato (NZ)
- School of Psychology Faculty of Arts and Social Sciences The University of Waikato Hamilton New Zealand
- Corresponding author
- Ghaleiha, Amin
- Venue
- Infant Mental Health Journal
- Publisher
- Wiley
- Published
- 2022-08
- Volume
- 43
- Issue
- 5
- Pages
- 756-768
- ISSN
- 0163-9641 (ISSN-L)
- 1097-0355
- PMC
- PMC9542128
- OpenAlex
- W4289317900
- Cited by
- 38
- References
- 44
- Citations by year
- 2026: 16 · 2025: 9 · 2024: 7 · 2023: 4 · 2022: 2
- FWCI
- 9.18
- Type
- journal article
- Language
- en
- Open access
- hybrid
- doi.org
- Licence
- Locations
- Infant Mental Health Journal (publishedVersion, cc-by)
- PubMed Central (publishedVersion, cc-by)
- PubMed (publishedVersion)
- Research Commons (University of Waikato) (submittedVersion)
- Topics
- Social Sciences › Demography › Family Dynamics and Relationships
- Social Sciences › Sociology and Political Science › Work-Family Balance Challenges
- Health Sciences › Medicine › Public Health, Environmental and Occupational Health › Maternal Mental Health During Pregnancy and Postpartum
- Keywords
- fathers, transition to parenthood, help-seeking, paternal stress, coping strategies, paternal anxiety, partner support, work-life balance, father's role, new fathers
- MeSH terms
- Help-Seeking Behavior, Anxiety, Attitude, Child, Fathers, Female, Humans, Male, Pregnancy, Parenting
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