Reclaiming a moral identity: stillbirth, stigma and ‘moral mothers
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Objectives to understand the effect of expectant motherhood discourses on parents who suffer a stillbirth.Design a qualitative, exploratory study using in-depth interviews to understand parental experience of stillbirth.Setting interviews took place in the homes of bereaved parents across several English health authorities.Participants 10 couples and 12 mothers who had experienced a stillbirth.Findings mothers were keen to distance themselves from behaviour that might be seen as stigmatising, that is, smoking, drinking, etc., while pregnant. Fathers, while keen to stress that their partners had behaved well in pregnancy, made no such claims.Key conclusions stillbirth constitutes a threat to a maternal 'moral' identity, which results in a differential experience of loss for mothers than for fathers.Implications for practise comprehending that the experience of stillbirth might lead the mother to feel that her identity as a 'moral mother' is under threat is essential in understanding the maternal experience of stillbirth.
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Parents struggled with feelings of guilt and blame, regret, fear and grief.
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- Authors
- Murphy, S.
- Affiliations
- The Open University (GB)
- Corresponding author
- Murphy, Samantha
- ORCID
- Murphy, Samantha
- Venue
- Midwifery
- Publisher
- Elsevier BV
- Published
- 2012-08
- Volume
- 28
- Issue
- 4
- Pages
- 476-480
- ISSN
- 0266-6138 (ISSN-L)
- OpenAlex
- W2020272825
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- 66
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- 30
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- FWCI
- 3.10
- Type
- journal article
- Language
- en
- Open access
- closed
- Locations
- Midwifery (publishedVersion)
- PubMed (publishedVersion)
- Open Research Online (The Open University) (acceptedVersion)
- Topics
- Social Sciences › Psychology › Clinical Psychology › Grief, Bereavement, and Mental Health
- Health Sciences › Medicine › Pediatrics, Perinatology and Child Health › Global Maternal and Child Health
- Health Sciences › Medicine › Obstetrics and Gynecology › Maternal and Perinatal Health Interventions
- Keywords
- stillbirth, maternal identity, moral identity, stigma, bereavement, maternal experience, fathers' experiences
- MeSH terms
- Adaptation, Psychological, Adult, Anxiety, Attitude to Death, Bereavement, Depression, Fathers, Female, Humans, Male, Mothers, Pregnancy, Stereotyping, Stress, Psychological, Parenting, Postpartum Period, Stillbirth
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