Self‐compassion mediates the link between attachment security and intimate relationship quality for couples navigating pregnancy
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Millions of couples navigate the transition from pregnancy to postpartum in a given year, and this period of change and adjustment in the family is associated with elevated risk for intimate relationship dysfunction. Self‐compassion has the potential to promote skills that are essential for healthy adaptation (e.g., emotion regulation, greater openness and flexibility, and more awareness of the needs of oneself and one's partner). The overarching goal of the present study was to investigate the role of self‐compassion in intimate relationship quality during pregnancy. A sample of 159 couples completed semi‐structured interviews and questionnaires. Parents engaging in more compassionate self‐responding during pregnancy have higher‐quality intimate relationships as measured across multiple facets—the degree of emotional intimacy and closeness in the relationship, adaptive conflict management and resolution, high‐quality support in response to stress, and a high degree of respect and acceptance directed toward each other. Furthermore, compassionate self‐responding emerged as a mediator of the link between attachment security and intimate relationship quality. Specifically, mothers who were higher in attachment anxiety reported lower levels of compassionate self‐responding, which in turn undermined multiple dimensions of the intimate relationship. Furthermore, fathers who were higher in attachment avoidance practiced less self‐compassion, which have deleterious consequences for the couple. These results provide implications that can inform conceptual frameworks of intimate relationship quality and clinical implications for interventions targeting the transition into parenthood.
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Consistent with factor analyses in past research, a total score for compassionate self-responding was computed by aggregating items across the mindfulness, common humanity, and self-kindness subscales.
“Consistent with factor analyses in past research [70], we computed a total score for compassionate nonresponding by aggregating items across the mindfulness, common humanity, and self-kindness subscales (four items each)”
From Trajectories of Maternal and Paternal Internalizing Symptoms from Pregnancy to 2 Years Postpartum: Identifying Modifiable Risk and Protective Factors (2024) · cites this paper as [70]
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- Authors
- Huynh, T., Phillips, E., & Brock, R. L.
- Affiliations
- University of Nebraska–Lincoln (US)
- Corresponding author
- Brock, Rebecca L.
- Venue
- Family Process
- Publisher
- Wiley
- Published
- 2021-07-13
- Volume
- 61
- Issue
- 1
- Pages
- 294-311
- ISSN
- 0014-7370 (ISSN-L)
- 1545-5300
- PMC
- PMC9578023
- OpenAlex
- W3177925435
- Cited by
- 25
- References
- 48
- Citations by year
- 2026: 2 · 2025: 6 · 2024: 8 · 2023: 5 · 2022: 4
- FWCI
- 4.16
- Type
- journal article
- Language
- en
- Open access
- green
- www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov
- Locations
- Family Process (publishedVersion)
- PubMed (publishedVersion)
- PubMed Central (acceptedVersion)
- Lincoln (University of Nebraska) (submittedVersion)
- Funders
- Eunice Kennedy Shriver National Institute of Child Health and Human Development (T32HD049302)
- Topics
- Social Sciences › Psychology › Social Psychology › Attachment and Relationship Dynamics
- Social Sciences › Psychology › Clinical Psychology › Mindfulness and Compassion Interventions
- Health Sciences › Medicine › Public Health, Environmental and Occupational Health › Maternal Mental Health During Pregnancy and Postpartum
- Keywords
- self-compassion, attachment security, pregnancy, couples, attachment anxiety, attachment avoidance, emotional intimacy, conflict management, social support, transition to parenthood, fathers, mothers
- MeSH terms
- Self-Compassion, Anxiety, Emotions, Empathy, Female, Humans, Pregnancy, Sexual Partners
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