The bad things we do because of empathy
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Empathy is usually seen as a prosocial and morally positive influence on behaviour. This article provides an overview of cases of negative acts motivated by empathy. It includes discussions of polarizations that are fueled by side-taking and empathy, selfish forms of empathy (such as sadistic empathy, vampirism, and helicopter parenting), and filtered empathy (using identification with a third person as a medium to have empathy with another). The definition of empathy used is to co-experience the situation of another.
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- Authors
- Breithaupt, F.
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- Indiana University Bloomington (US)
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- Breithaupt, Fritz
- ORCID
- Breithaupt, Fritz
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- Interdisciplinary Science Reviews
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- SAGE Publications
- Published
- 2018-06
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- 43
- Issue
- 2
- Pages
- 166-174
- ISSN
- 0308-0188 (ISSN-L)
- 1743-2790
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- W2800500554
- Cited by
- 55
- References
- 40
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- 7.11
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- en
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- Topics
- Social Sciences › Psychology › Social Psychology › Emotions and Moral Behavior
- Life Sciences › Neuroscience › Cognitive Neuroscience › Psychology of Moral and Emotional Judgment
- Social Sciences › Arts and Humanities › Philosophy › Philosophical Ethics and Theory
- Keywords
- empathy, negative behavior, prosocial behavior, vampirism, helicopter parenting, identification, moral psychology
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