"They Don't Leave Us Alone Anywhere We Go": Gender and Digital Abuse in South Asia
Open accessAbstract
South Asia faces one of the largest gender gaps online globally, and online safety is one of the main barriers to gender-equitable Internet access [GSMA, 2015]. To better understand the gendered risks and coping practices online in South Asia, we present a qualitative study of the online abuse experiences and coping practices of 199 people who identified as women and 6 NGO staff from India, Pakistan, and Bangladesh, using a feminist analysis. We found that a majority of our participants regularly contended with online abuse, experiencing three major abuse types: cyberstalking, impersonation, and personal content leakages. Consequences of abuse included emotional harm, reputation damage, and physical and sexual violence. Participants coped through informal channels rather than through technological protections or law enforcement. Altogether, our findings point to opportunities for designs, policies, and algorithms to improve women's safety online in South Asia.
Integrity signals
Registry
Cites
Statistics
Claims the paper makes
Claims other papers make about this one
Each is checked against this paper’s own text: does it say what the citing paper says it does?
Many interviewees said Indian public-sector AI was seen as a way to modernise and fix long-standing inefficiencies in resource delivery.
“Many respondents described how public sector AI projects in India were viewed as modernising efforts to overcome age-old inefficiencies in resource delivery (also in [175]).”
From Re-imagining Algorithmic Fairness in India and Beyond (2021) · cites this paper as [175]
Cites
A General Inductive Approach for Analyzing Qualitative Evaluation Data
Thomas, D. R. (2006) · American Journal of Evaluation · doi:10.1177/1098214005283748 · Cited by 10,858 · see citing works
Under Western Eyes: Feminist Scholarship and Colonial Discourses
Mohanty, C. (1988) · Feminist Review · doi:10.1057/fr.1988.42 · Cited by 4,855 · see citing works
Abu‐Lughod, L. (2002) · American Anthropologist · doi:10.1525/aa.2002.104.3.783 · Cited by 2,371 · see citing works
Bullies Move Beyond the Schoolyard: A Preliminary Look at Cyberbullying
Patchin, J. W., & Hinduja, S. (2006) · Youth Violence and Juvenile Justice · doi:10.1177/1541204006286288 · Cited by 1,701 · see citing works
Pennebaker, J. W. (2011) · New Scientist · doi:10.1016/s0262-4079(11)62167-2 · Cited by 780 · see citing works
Citron, D. K. (2014) · Harvard University Press eBooks · doi:10.4159/harvard.9780674735613 · Cited by 738 · see citing works
Stalking in America: Findings From the National Violence Against Women Survey
Tjaden, P., & Thoennes, N. (1998) · PsycEXTRA Dataset · doi:10.1037/e521072006-001 · Cited by 717 · see citing works
Willard, N. E. (2006) · Cited by 712 · see citing works
Individual and Contextual Determinants of Domestic Violence in North India
Koenig, M. A., Stephenson, R., Ahmed, S., Jejeebhoy, S. J., & Campbell, J. (2006) · American Journal of Public Health · doi:10.2105/ajph.2004.050872 · Cited by 548 · see citing works
A Survey of Online Harassment at a University Campus
Finn, J. (2004) · Journal of Interpersonal Violence · doi:10.1177/0886260503262083 · Cited by 487 · see citing works
Common Sense Reasoning for Detection, Prevention, and Mitigation of Cyberbullying
Dinakar, K., Jones, B., Havasi, C., Lieberman, H. A., & Picard, R. W. (2012) · ACM Transactions on Interactive Intelligent Systems · doi:10.1145/2362394.2362400 · Cited by 434 · see citing works
Fox, J., & Tang, W. Y. (2016) · New Media & Society · doi:10.1177/1461444816635778 · Cited by 418 · see citing works
The Abuse of Technology in Domestic Violence and Stalking
Woodlock, D. (2016) · Violence Against Women · doi:10.1177/1077801216646277 · Cited by 413 · see citing works
Andalibi, N., Haimson, O. L., De Choudhury, M., & Forte, A. (2016) · Proceedings of the 2016 CHI Conference on Human Factors in Computing Systems · doi:10.1145/2858036.2858096 · Cited by 378 · see citing works
Sticks and Stones Can Break My Bones, But How Can Pixels Hurt Me?
Cassidy, W., Jackson, M., & Brown, K. N. (2009) · School Psychology International · doi:10.1177/0143034309106948 · Cited by 313 · see citing works
Freed, D., Palmer, J., Minchala, D. E., Levy, K. E. C., Ristenpart, T., & Dell, N. L. (2018) · CHI Conference on Human Factors in Computing Systems · doi:10.1145/3173574.3174241 · Cited by 295 · see citing works
Online Harassment and Content Moderation: The Case of Blocklists
Jhaver, S., Ghoshal, S., Bruckman, A., & Gilbert, E. (2018) · ACM Transactions on Computer-Human Interaction · doi:10.1145/3185593 · Cited by 270 · see citing works
Citron, D. K., & Franks, M. A. (2014) · Digital Commons at University of Maryland Carey Law (University of Maryland Francis King Carey School of Law) · Cited by 266 · see citing works
Dimond, J. P., Dye, M., Larose, D., & Bruckman, A. S. (2013) · ACM Conference on Computer Supported Cooperative Work (CSCW) · doi:10.1145/2441776.2441831 · Cited by 250 · see citing works
Classification and Its Consequences for Online Harassment: Design Insights from HeartMob
Blackwell, L., Dimond, J., Schoenebeck, S., & Lampe, C. (2017) · Proceedings of the ACM on Human-Computer Interaction · doi:10.1145/3134659 · Cited by 245 · see citing works
Domestic violence and information communication technologies
Dimond, J. P., Fiesler, C., & Bruckman, A. (2011) · Interacting with computers · doi:10.1016/j.intcom.2011.04.006 · Cited by 239 · see citing works
Intimate Partner Violence, Technology, and Stalking
Southworth, C., Finn, J., Dawson, S., Fraser, C., & Tucker, S. (2007) · Violence Against Women · doi:10.1177/1077801207302045 · Cited by 238 · see citing works
PHYSICAL SPOUSAL VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMEN IN INDIA: SOME RISK FACTORS
Jeyaseelan, L., Kumar, S., Neelakantan, N., Peedicayil, A., PILLAI, R., & Duvvury, N. (2007) · Journal of Biosocial Science · doi:10.1017/s0021932007001836 · Cited by 223 · see citing works
Matthews, T. L., O'Leary, K., Turner, A., Sleeper, M., Woelfer, J. P., Shelton, M., Manthorne, C., Churchill, E. F., & Consolvo, S. (2017) · CHI Conference on Human Factors in Computing Systems · doi:10.1145/3025453.3025875 · Cited by 187 · see citing works
Self-citationJessica Vitak, B., Chadha, K., Steiner, L., & Ashktorab, Z. (2017) · ACM Conference on Computer Supported Cooperative Work (CSCW) · doi:10.1145/2998181.2998337 · Cited by 181 · see citing works
Online Harassment, Digital Abuse, and Cyberstalking in America
Lenhart, A., Ybarra, M. L., Zickuhr, K., & Price, M. N. (2016) · doi:10.69985/ippa8074 · Cited by 181 · see citing works
Perceptions of Cyberstalking Among College Students
Alexy, E. M., Burgess, A. W., Baker, T. B., & Smoyak, S. A. (2005) · Brief Treatment and Crisis Intervention · doi:10.1093/brief-treatment/mhi020 · Cited by 175 · see citing works
Dick pics on blast: A woman’s resistance to online sexual harassment using humour, art and Instagram
Vitis, L., & Gilmour, F. (2017) · Crime, Media, Culture: An International Journal · doi:10.1177/1741659016652445 · Cited by 153 · see citing works
(2015) · Choice Reviews Online · doi:10.5860/choice.187841 · Cited by 153 · see citing works
Ahmed, S. I., Jackson, S. J., Ahmed, N., Ferdous, H. S., Rifat, M. R., Rizvi, A. S. M., Ahmed, S., & Mansur, R. S. (2014) · CHI Conference on Human Factors in Computing Systems · doi:10.1145/2556288.2557376 · Cited by 152 · see citing works
Self-citationDigital Technologies and Intimate Partner Violence
Freed, D., Palmer, J., Minchala, D. E., Levy, K., Ristenpart, T., & Dell, N. (2017) · Proc. ACM Hum. Comput. Interact. · doi:10.1145/3134681 · Cited by 138 · see citing works
Characterizations of Online Harassment
Pater, J. A., Kim, M. K., Mynatt, E. D., & Fiesler, C. L. (2016) · International ACM SIGGROUP Conference on Supporting Group Work (GROUP) · doi:10.1145/2957276.2957297 · Cited by 133 · see citing works
Purdah in Pakistan: Seclusion and Modern Occupations for Women
Papanek, H. (1971) · Journal of Marriage and the Family · doi:10.2307/349849 · Cited by 118 · see citing works
Blom, J., Viswanathan, D., Spasojevic, M., et al. (2010) · ACM SIGCHI Conference on Human Factors in Computing Systems (CHI) · doi:10.1145/1753326.1753602 · Cited by 84 · see citing works
Women's Safety in Public Spaces
Karusala, N., & Kumar, N. (2017) · CHI Conference on Human Factors in Computing Systems · doi:10.1145/3025453.3025532 · Cited by 83 · see citing works
Ahmed, S. I., Haque, M. R., Guha, S., Rifat, M. R., & Dell, N. (2017) · Proceedings of the 2017 CHI Conference on Human Factors in Computing Systems · doi:10.1145/3025453.3025961 · Cited by 83 · see citing works
Voices of Strength and Struggle
Zakar, R., Zakar, M. Z., & Krämer, A. (2012) · Journal of Interpersonal Violence · doi:10.1177/0886260512441257 · Cited by 78 · see citing works
Heron, M. J., Belford, P. H., & Göker, A. (2014) · ACM SIGCAS Computers and Society · doi:10.1145/2695577.2695582 · Cited by 72 · see citing works
Spousal Violence in Bangladesh: A Call for a Public-health Response
Naved, R. T., & Johnston, H. B. (2009) · Journal of Health Population and Nutrition · doi:10.3329/jhpn.v26i3.1903 · Cited by 72 · see citing works
From Margins to Seams: Imbrication, Inclusion, and Torque in the Aadhaar Identification Project
Singh, R., & Jackson, S. J. (2017) · Proceedings of the 2017 CHI Conference on Human Factors in Computing Systems · doi:10.1145/3025453.3025910 · Cited by 72 · see citing works
Perspectives on domestic violence: case study from Karachi, Pakistan.
Rabbani, F., Qureshi, F., & Rizvi, N. (2008) · PubMed · Cited by 68 · see citing works
Examining Security and Privacy Research in Developing Regions
Vashistha, A., Anderson, R., & Mare, S. (2018) · ACM SIGCAS Conference on Computing and Sustainable Societies (COMPASS) · doi:10.1145/3209811.3209818 · Cited by 62 · see citing works
Goga, O., Venkatadri, G., & Gummadi, K. P. (2015) · ACM Internet Measurement Conference (IMC) · doi:10.1145/2815675.2815699 · Cited by 60 · see citing works
Understanding the Role of Community in Online Dating
Masden, C. A., & Edwards, W. K. (2015) · CHI Conference on Human Factors in Computing Systems · doi:10.1145/2702123.2702417 · Cited by 60 · see citing works
Sextortion: Cybersecurity, teenagers, and remote sexual assault 1
Wittes, B., Poplin, C., Jurecic, Q., & Spera, C. (2016) · Cited by 59 · see citing works
Toward responsible AI for the next billion users
Sambasivan, N., & Holbrook, J. (2018) · interactions · doi:10.1145/3298735 · Cited by 51 · see citing works
Self-citationOnline Harassment, Defamation, and Hateful Speech: A Primer of the Legal Landscape
Marwick, A. E., & Miller, R. A. (2014) · FLASH - Fordham Law Archive of Scholarship & History (Fordham University) · Cited by 44 · see citing works
Sambasivan, N., Rangaswamy, N., Cutrell, E., et al. (2009) · ACM International Conference on Ubiquitous Computing (UbiComp) · doi:10.1145/1620545.1620570 · Cited by 44 · see citing works
Self-citationChaudhuri, M. (2005) · Cited by 34 · see citing works
Loomba, A., & Lukose, R. A. (2012) · Duke University Press eBooks · doi:10.2307/j.ctv11g96jz.3 · Cited by 32 · see citing works
Dātāra, C. (1993) · Stree eBooks · Cited by 25 · see citing works
Revenge Porn by Teens in the United States and India: A Socio-Legal Analysis
Halder, D., & Jaishankar, K. (2013) · International Annals of Criminology · doi:10.1017/s0003445200000076 · Cited by 24 · see citing works
Marginality, aspiration and accessibility in ICTD
Pal, J., Ammari, T., Mahalingam, R., Alfaro, A. M. H., & Lakshmanan, M. (2013) · International Conference on Information and Communication Technologies and Development (ICTD) · doi:10.1145/2516604.2516623 · Cited by 24 · see citing works
Lived Experiences of Women Facing Domestic Violence in India
Bhandari, S., & Hughes, J. (2017) · Journal of Social Work in the Global Community · doi:10.5590/jswgc.2017.02.1.02 · Cited by 22 · see citing works
New South Asian Feminisms: Paradoxes and Possibilities
Tandon, N. (2013) · Gender & Development · doi:10.1080/13552074.2013.802138 · Cited by 20 · see citing works
Sambasivan, N., Checkley, G., Ahmed, N., et al. (2017) · interactions · doi:10.1145/3155050 · Cited by 20 · see citing works
Self-citationNew Perspectives on Cybercrime
Owen, T., Noble, W., & Speed, F. C. (2017) · Springer eBooks · doi:10.1007/978-3-319-53856-3 · Cited by 19 · see citing works
New South Asian Feminisms Paradoxes and Possibilities
Roy, S. (2012) · Cited by 17 · see citing works
Trice, M. R. (2015) · doi:10.1145/2775441.2775471 · Cited by 16 · see citing works
Nardi, B. A., Vatrapu, R., & Clemmensen, T. (2011) · interactions · doi:10.1145/1925820.1925828 · Cited by 13 · see citing works
Menon, N. (2008) · Medical Entomology and Zoology · Cited by 6 · see citing works
Beyond the Gender Gap: Understanding Women's Participation in Wikipedia
Corple, D. J. (2016) · Purdue e-Pubs (Purdue University System) · Cited by 3 · see citing works
Silenced by Free Speech: How Cyberabuse Affects Debate and Democracy
Owen, T., Noble, W., & Speed, F. C. (2017) · Springer eBooks · doi:10.1007/978-3-319-53856-3_9 · Cited by 3 · see citing works
Flagged first, then by citations
Cited by
Sorted by citations
Re-imagining Algorithmic Fairness in India and Beyond
Sambasivan, N., Arnesen, E., Hutchinson, B., Doshi, T., & Prabhakaran, V. (2021) · Proceedings of the 2021 ACM Conference on Fairness, Accountability, and Transparency · doi:10.1145/3442188.3445896 · Cited by 228 · see citing works
Self-citationTaking the Long, Holistic, and Intersectional View to Women’s Wellbeing
Kumar, N., Karusala, N., Ismail, A., & Tuli, A. (2020) · ACM Transactions on Computer-Human Interaction · doi:10.1145/3397159 · Cited by 61 · see citing works
SoK: Content Moderation in Social Media, from Guidelines to Enforcement, and Research to Practice
Singhal, M., Ling, C., Paudel, P., Thota, P., Kumarswamy, N., Stringhini, G., & Nilizadeh, S. (2023) · 2023 IEEE 8th European Symposium on Security and Privacy (EuroS&P) · doi:10.1109/eurosp57164.2023.00056 · Cited by 57 · see citing works
When the Shield Became the Sword: Gendered Revenge Effects on Safety Platforms
Elahi, T., & Yang, A. T. (2026) · Proceedings of the 2026 ACM Conference on Fairness, Accountability, and Transparency · doi:10.1145/3805689.3812292
“…of TFGBV, including online harassment, image-based abuse, doxxing (the deliberate public exposure of a target’s real-world identity to facilitate offline harm), and coordinated targeting, finding that women and gender minorities are disproportionately and systematically affected [24, 25, 43, 50].”
- Authors
- Sambasivan, N., Batool, A., Ahmed, N., Matthews, T., Thomas, K., Gaytán-Lugo, L. S., Nemer, D., Bursztein, E., Churchill, E., & Consolvo, S.
- Affiliations
- Google (United States) (US)
- Information Technology University (PK)
- North South University (BD)
- Independent Researcher, San Jose, CA, USA
- Universidad de Colima, Colima, Mexico
- University of Kentucky (US)
- ORCID
- Venue
- Proceedings of the 2019 CHI Conference on Human Factors in Computing Systems
- Publisher
- ACM
- Published
- 2019-05-02
- Pages
- 1-14
- OpenAlex
- W2911428659
- Cited by
- 175
- References
- 63
- Citations by year
- 2026: 25 · 2025: 36 · 2024: 24 · 2023: 22 · 2022: 21 · 2021: 24 · 2020: 20 · 2019: 3
- FWCI
- 48.55
- Type
- conference paper
- Language
- en
- Open access
- hybrid
- doi.org
- Licence
- Locations
- CHI Conference on Human Factors in Computing Systems (publishedVersion, cc-by-nc-sa)
- Topics
- Social Sciences › Sociology and Political Science › Stalking, Cyberstalking, and Harassment
- Social Sciences › Gender Studies › Gender, Feminism, and Media
- Social Sciences › Sociology and Political Science › Privacy, Security, and Data Protection
- Keywords
- online abuse, women's online safety, cyberstalking, impersonation, coping strategies, NGO staff, feminist analysis, South Asia, emotional harm, reputational damage, sexual violence, informal support networks
About these checks
Registry, retraction, Cites and statistics results are computed, not judged, with one exception: a printed reference that no index lists is read once by a model before it counts as a citation error. Claims are extracted by a model and kept only when their quote appears verbatim in the text; each cited source is then checked, with a model’s help, for whether it says what the claim relies on. Those verdicts can be wrong — read the claim’s quote and the cited source before relying on one.
Statistics and arithmetic are recomputed, not judged.
Confidence bands are shown only for fields calibrated on our annotated test set. None is calibrated yet, so no band is shown.
What counts as a claim ›How we measure confidence ›How we check this ›
Are you an author, or do you see a problem with this page? Request a review