Are Narcissists Sexy? Zeroing in on the Effect of Narcissism on Short-Term Mate Appeal
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This research was aimed to provide a comprehensive test of the classic notion that narcissistic individuals are appealing as short-term romantic or sexual partners. In three studies, we tested the hypotheses that narcissism exerts a positive effect on an individual’s mate appeal and that this effect is mediated by high physical attractiveness and high social boldness. We implemented a multimethod approach and used ratings of opposite sex persons (Study 1), ratings of friends (Study 2), and records of courtship outcomes in naturalistic interactions (Study 3) as indicators of mate appeal. In all cases, narcissism had a positive effect on mate appeal, which was mainly due to the agentic self-enhancement aspects of narcissism (rather than narcissists’ lacking communion). As predicted, physical attractiveness and social boldness mediated the positive effect of narcissism on mate appeal. Findings further indicated that narcissism was more strongly linked to mate appeal than to friend appeal.
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Narcissists are likely to acquire high status and become well-liked in short-term acquaintances and self-presentational settings because affiliative bonds there are shallow and less intimate.
“In fact, narcissists are likely to acquire a high status and become well-liked in short-term acquaintances and self-presentational settings because in such settings affiliative bonds are more shallow and less intimate (Back et al., 2010; Carlson & Lawless DesJardins, 2015; Dufner, Rauthmann, Czarna, & Denissen, 2013; Lamkin, Clifton, Campbell, & Miller, 2014; Leckelt, Küfner, Nestler, & Back, 2015”
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Narcissism might be beneficial for young adults' amassment of sexual experiences because narcissists are perceived as attractive, and for job acquisition.
“Narcissism might be beneficial not only for young adults’ amassment of sexual experiences (because narcissists are perceived as attractive; Dufner, Rauthmann, et al., 2013) but also for job acquisition.”
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- Authors
- Dufner, M., Rauthmann, J. F., Czarna, A. Z., & Denissen, J. J. A.
- Affiliations
- Humboldt-Universität zu Berlin (DE)
- Jagiellonian University (PL)
- Tilburg University (NL)
- Venue
- Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin
- Publisher
- SAGE Publications
- Published
- 2013-04-02
- Volume
- 39
- Issue
- 7
- Pages
- 870-882
- ISSN
- 0146-1672 (ISSN-L)
- 1552-7433
- OpenAlex
- W1994554260
- Cited by
- 154
- References
- 5
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- FWCI
- 18.96
- Type
- journal article
- Language
- en
- Open access
- green
- ruj.uj.edu.pl
- Licence
- Locations
- Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin (publishedVersion)
- Research portal (Tilburg University) (publishedVersion)
- PubMed (publishedVersion)
- Homo Politicus (Academy of Humanities and Economics in Lodz) (submittedVersion, cc-by-nc-nd)
- Data Archiving and Networked Services (DANS) (submittedVersion)
- Topics
- Social Sciences › Psychology › Experimental and Cognitive Psychology › Evolutionary Psychology and Human Behavior
- Social Sciences › Psychology › Clinical Psychology › Personality Traits and Psychology
- Life Sciences › Agricultural and Biological Sciences › Ecology, Evolution, Behavior and Systematics › Animal Behavior and Reproduction
- Keywords
- narcissism, short-term mating, physical attractiveness, social boldness, sexual attractiveness
- MeSH terms
- Adult, Courtship, Female, Humans, Interpersonal Relations, Male, Narcissism, Poland, Surveys and Questionnaires, Self Concept, Sexual Partners, Students, Friends
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