The dark side of inclusion: Undesired acceptance increases aggression
Abstract
It is generally assumed that being accepted by others should have universally positive effects. The present research questions this assumption and shows that acceptance can sometimes arouse aggressive thoughts and feelings when people have a low desire to belong to the accepting group. In Study 1 ( N = 61), international students who had low, compared to high, desire for inclusion in a host society behaved more aggressively when informed that the host society accepted them. Study 2 ( N = 57) replicated this finding on attributions of aggression to members of the host society. In Study 3 ( N = 76) individuals accepted into a workgroup showed more implicit aggressive cognitions when they did not desire inclusion compared to individuals who desired inclusion. The findings reveal a potential limit to the positive effects of acceptance and highlight the importance of considering group members’ motives for inclusion when investigating the effects of group acceptance.
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- Authors
- Greenaway, K. H., Jetten, J., Ellemers, N., & van Bunderen, L.
- Affiliations
- The University of Queensland (AU)
- Leiden University (NL)
- Erasmus University Rotterdam, The Netherlands
- Venue
- Group Processes & Intergroup Relations
- Publisher
- SAGE Publications
- Published
- 2014-06-19
- Volume
- 18
- Issue
- 2
- Pages
- 173-189
- ISSN
- 1368-4302 (ISSN-L)
- 1461-7188
- OpenAlex
- W2126470463
- Cited by
- 27
- References
- 43
- Citations by year
- 2025: 1 · 2024: 5 · 2023: 3 · 2022: 2 · 2021: 3 · 2020: 8 · 2019: 1 · 2018: 2 · 2017: 1 · 2015: 1
- FWCI
- 2.17
- Type
- journal article
- Language
- en
- Open access
- closed
- Locations
- Group Processes & Intergroup Relations (publishedVersion)
- Leiden Repository (Leiden University) (submittedVersion)
- Utrecht University Repository (Utrecht University) (submittedVersion)
- Data Archiving and Networked Services (DANS) (submittedVersion)
- Topics
- Social Sciences › Sociology and Political Science › Social and Intergroup Psychology
- Social Sciences › Psychology › Social Psychology › Bullying, Victimization, and Aggression
- Social Sciences › Psychology › Social Psychology › Death Anxiety and Social Exclusion
- Keywords
- social acceptance, inclusion, aggression, implicit aggression, international students, host society
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