What Have You Done for Me Lately? Friendship-Selection in the Shadow of the Dark Triad Traits
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The current studies examined how the Dark Triad personality traits (i.e., Machiavellianism, narcissism, and psychopathy) facilitate the strategic structuring of an individual's social environment in terms of same- and opposite-sex friends. In one study using normative questions ( N = 267) and another using a budget-allocation task ( N = 114), we found that the Dark Triad traits were associated with choosing friends for strategic purposes and to create a volatile environment. Narcissistic individuals reported relatively more reasons to form friendships, such as shared interests, makes me feel good, and intelligence. Women high in narcissism chose same-sex friends who were attractive and women high on Machiavellianism chose same-sex friends who have social status. Men high on psychopathy devalued traits associated with good social relationships in favor of friends who could facilitate their mating efforts and to offset risks incurred in their life history strategy. Results are discussed using the selection-manipulation-evocation framework for explaining how personality traits interact with social environments and integrated with findings from evolutionary biology.
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Narcissists often demonstrate an increased preference for high-status friends and trophy partners.
“They often demonstrate an increased preference for high-status friends (Jonason & Schmitt, 2012) and trophy partners (Campbell, 1999), perhaps because they can bask in the reflected glory of these people.”
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- Authors
- Jonason, P. K., & Schmitt, D. P.
- Affiliations
- Western Sydney University (AU)
- Bradley University (US)
- Corresponding author
- Jonason, Peter K.
- Venue
- Evolutionary Psychology
- Publisher
- SAGE Publications
- Published
- 2012-07-01
- Volume
- 10
- Issue
- 3
- Pages
- 400-421
- ISSN
- 1474-7049 (ISSN-L)
- PMC
- PMC10480828
- OpenAlex
- W2151001352
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- 9.87
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- journal article
- Language
- en
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- Funders
- Harvard University
- Johns Hopkins University
- Royal Society
- University of Oxford
- Topics
- Social Sciences › Psychology › Experimental and Cognitive Psychology › Evolutionary Psychology and Human Behavior
- Social Sciences › Psychology › Clinical Psychology › Personality Traits and Psychology
- Life Sciences › Agricultural and Biological Sciences › Ecology, Evolution, Behavior and Systematics › Animal Behavior and Reproduction
- Keywords
- Dark Triad, Machiavellianism, narcissism, psychopathy, friendship selection, same-sex friendships, opposite-sex friendships, social environment, mating strategies, life history strategies, gender differences
- MeSH terms
- Adult, Antisocial Personality Disorder, Female, Humans, Interpersonal Relations, Machiavellianism, Male, Narcissism, Psychological Theory, Surveys and Questionnaires, Sex Factors, Social Environment, Friends
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