‘Suddenly the first fifty years of my life made sense’: Experiences of older people with autism
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Research on the experience of growing older with autism is very limited. In this study, 13 people with autism aged over 50 years participated in semi-structured interviews about their experiences of diagnosis, social support and getting older. Interviews were analysed using thematic analysis. Three overarching themes were generated: difference, life review and longing for connection. Prior to diagnosis, individuals had awareness of their difficulties, attributed these to intrinsic difference and engaged in a deliberate process of reducing the visibility of this difference. Diagnosis prompted a process of life review and externalisation, whereby past negative experiences were reattributed to autism as opposed to the self. Loneliness, isolation and yearning for interpersonal connection were ubiquitous and longstanding. Autism support and social groups were highly valued, offering opportunities for belonging, acceptance and social comparison. Results highlight the similarity to younger age groups in terms of lived experience and need for greater support, particularly with respect to reducing isolation and improving access to diagnosis.
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Isolation and loneliness were exacerbated by age.
“Isolation and loneliness exacerbated by age.”
From Diagnosis of autism in adulthood: A scoping review (2020) · cites this paper as Hickey et al. (2018)
The ‘Isolation and loneliness’ passage describes these experiences as ‘no less distressing with advancing years,’ not as worsening with age. The Discussion adds that difficulties persisted across the lifespan and that themes did not vary substantially with participant age. (LLM, conf=0.84)
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Experimental — accuracy not yet measuredThe formation of autistic self-identity was facilitated by meeting autistic peers, building upon self-understanding through comparisons.
“The formation of autistic selfidentity was facilitated by meeting autistic peers, building upon self-understanding through comparisons (Bargiela et al., 2016; Hickey et al., 2018; Lewis, 2016b; Punshon et al., 2009; Tan, 2018).”
From Diagnosis of autism in adulthood: A scoping review (2020) · cites this paper as Hickey et al., 2018
The post-diagnosis ‘Reaching out’ passages (pp. 22–24) report that meeting autistic peers provided shared understanding and opportunities to learn about themselves through comparison. But ‘Access to diagnosis’ says participants tended to separate autism from their existing sense of self rather than incorporate an autistic identity, so the claim about forming that identity goes beyond the findings. (LLM, conf=0.88)
Experimental — accuracy not yet measuredResearch conducted in the UK dominates the topic area of experiences of diagnosis.
“Research conducted in the UK dominates this topic area (see Bargiela et al., 2016; Hickey et al., 2018; Raymond-Barker et al., 2018)”
From Diagnosis of autism in adulthood: A scoping review (2020) · cites this paper as Hickey et al., 2018
Adults described interactions with other autistic adults as validating and fulfilling, where their differences were normalised.
“In contrast, adults described interactions with other autistic adults as validating and fulfilling (Bargiela et al., 2016; Hickey et al., 2018; Tan, 2018), where their differences were normalised (Bargiela et al., 2016; Hickey et al., 2018; Tan, 2018).”
From Diagnosis of autism in adulthood: A scoping review (2020) · cites this paper as Hickey et al., 2018
In many cases, improved self-understanding after diagnosis helped adults develop useful strategies in everyday life.
“In many cases, improved selfunderstanding after diagnosis helped adults develop useful strategies in everyday life (Hickey et al., 2018; Kanfiszer et al., 2017; Lewis, 2016b; Tan, 2018).”
From Diagnosis of autism in adulthood: A scoping review (2020) · cites this paper as Hickey et al., 2018
Adults frequently described lifelong feelings of being different from peers, social isolation and bullying prior to diagnosis.
“Adults frequently described lifelong feelings of being different from peers, social isolation and bullying prior to diagnosis (Hickey et al., 2018; Lewis, 2016b; Punshon et al., 2009).”
From Diagnosis of autism in adulthood: A scoping review (2020) · cites this paper as Hickey et al., 2018
Many adults participated in autistic peer communities following autism diagnosis.
“Many adults participated in autistic peer communities following autism diagnosis (Hickey et al., 2018; Lewis, 2016b; Tan, 2018).”
From Diagnosis of autism in adulthood: A scoping review (2020) · cites this paper as Hickey et al., 2018
Older autistic adults attributed negative experiences to autism and separated it from their true selves.
“Adults attributed negative experiences to autism and separated it from their true selves.”
From Diagnosis of autism in adulthood: A scoping review (2020) · cites this paper as Hickey et al. (2018)
Self-understanding allowed these adults to develop strategies to navigate life.
“Self-understanding allowed adults to develop strategies to navigate life.”
From Diagnosis of autism in adulthood: A scoping review (2020) · cites this paper as Hickey et al. (2018)
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- Authors
- Hickey, A., Crabtree, J., & Stott, J.
- Affiliations
- South London and Maudsley NHS Foundation Trust (GB)
- London Borough of Tower Hamlets (GB)
- University College London (GB)
- Corresponding author
- Stott, Joshua
- Venue
- Autism
- Publisher
- SAGE Publications
- Published
- 2017-02-13
- Volume
- 22
- Issue
- 3
- Pages
- 357-367
- ISSN
- 1362-3613 (ISSN-L)
- 1461-7005
- OpenAlex
- W2588184259
- Cited by
- 131
- References
- 15
- Citations by year
- 2026: 20 · 2025: 21 · 2024: 26 · 2023: 14 · 2022: 17 · 2021: 9 · 2020: 8 · 2019: 9 · 2018: 4 · 2017: 3
- FWCI
- 3.77
- Type
- journal article
- Language
- en
- Open access
- green
- discovery.ucl.ac.uk
- Locations
- Autism (publishedVersion)
- PubMed (publishedVersion)
- UCL Discovery (University College London) (submittedVersion)
- Topics
- Life Sciences › Neuroscience › Cognitive Neuroscience › Autism Spectrum Disorder Research
- Social Sciences › Psychology › Clinical Psychology › Family and Disability Support Research
- Health Sciences › Health Professions › General Health Professions › Aging, Elder Care, and Social Issues
- Keywords
- older adults, lived experience, diagnosis, social support, loneliness, isolation, sense of belonging, life review, difference, social connectedness
- MeSH terms
- Age Factors, Aged, Autistic Disorder, Female, Humans, Interviews as Topic, Male, Middle Aged, Personal Satisfaction, Social Support
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