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Voicing the Victims of Narcissistic Partners: A Qualitative Analysis of Responses to Narcissistic Injury and Self-Esteem Regulation

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Green, Ava, Charles, Kathy·2019·Sage Open

Abstract

Addressing an underresearched aspect of narcissism, this study investigated subclinical “grandiose” and “vulnerable” narcissism within the context of domestic violence. Common triggers evoking narcissistic rage and differences in narcissistic injury response were explored. Qualitative semi-structured interviews with seven participants who reported being in a relationship with a narcissistic partner were thematically analyzed. Three overarching themes emerged: (a) overt and covert expressions of abuse, (b) challenge to self-perceived authority, and (c) fear of abandonment. Findings suggest both grandiose and vulnerable narcissists’ reactions to narcissistic injury are most likely covertly and overtly aggressive and violent; however, the underlying motives for the behavior differed. For grandiose narcissists, violence was commonly triggered by threats to self-esteem, whereas vulnerable narcissists commonly experienced significant injury and rage from fear of abandonment. It is argued that attempts to regulate and restore self-esteem for the two subtypes of narcissistic presentation will differ, thus providing further support for theoretical distinctions between grandiose and vulnerable narcissists in intimate relationships. It is concluded that popular images of the narcissist are overly simplistic as the personality trait is more complex than the grandiose type typically presented. This study contributes new understanding to the nature of narcissism in domestic violence. Limitations and suggestions for future research are discussed.

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This qualitative study thematically analyzed interviews with seven self-perceived victims of narcissistic partners and found both grandiose and vulnerable narcissists were perceived to respond to narcissistic injury with overt and covert abuse. Grandiose partners’ rage was linked to threats to self-esteem/authority, whereas vulnerable partners’ rage was linked to fear of abandonment.

Key findings

  • Three overarching themes emerged: (a) overt and covert expressions of abuse, (b) challenge to self-perceived authority, and (c) fear of abandonment.
  • Seven participants (six females, one male) took part; four participants had partners who displayed grandiose characteristics and three had partners who exhibited vulnerable traits.
  • Both grandiose and vulnerable narcissists’ reactions to narcissistic injury were described as most likely covertly and overtly aggressive and violent, but the underlying motives differed: grandiose violence was commonly triggered by threats to self-esteem, while vulnerable narcissists commonly experienced injury and rage from fear of abandonment.
  • Vulnerable narcissists were perceived to use sulky passive-aggressive behavior and the “victim card” to maintain control, while grandiose narcissists were perceived to restore self-esteem through overt hostility and derogation of partners.

Methods

  • Qualitative semi-structured interviews with seven participants who perceived themselves to have been in a relationship with a narcissist; inclusion required being above 18 years old, with no gender criteria. Participants were mainly recruited through a private Facebook group (“NARH-Narcissism Abuse & Recovery Hotline”).
  • Interviews lasted approximately 45 min, ranging from 20 to 76 min; four were conducted online via Skype and three face-to-face. Transcripts were analyzed using Braun and Clarke’s six-phase thematic analysis, with a deductive, latent-level approach, bracketing, and team discussion to reduce interpretation bias.
  • Partner subtype was classified after the first interview question and analysis of trait descriptions: four partners displayed grandiose characteristics and three exhibited vulnerable traits.

Limitations

  • Stated: participant bias may have affected authenticity because participants were members of recovery/self-help groups and may have used pop-psychology language or restructured recollections through repeated telling; vulnerable-partner transcripts appeared more idiosyncratic and less psychologized.
  • Stated: future research should incorporate narcissists’ own accounts and explore female narcissists’ responses to narcissistic injury in intimate relationships.
  • Evident: the sample was very small (seven participants), relied on self-perceived rather than clinically diagnosed narcissism, and used informant narratives only, limiting generalizability.

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  • Findingown data

    For grandiose narcissists, violence was commonly triggered by threats to self-esteem.

    “For grandiose narcissists, violence was commonly triggered by threats to self-esteem”
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    • Rests on an assumption: Participants' self-identification as having been in a relationship with a narcissist accurately identifies their partners as narcissistic.
    • Rests on an assumption: The researcher's classification of partners into grandiose versus vulnerable subtypes based on the first interview question and trait descriptions accurately reflects the partners' actual narcissistic subtype.
    • Rests on an assumption: Participants' retrospective subjective accounts accurately reflect their partners' behavior and motives.
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    Both grandiose and vulnerable narcissists' reactions to narcissistic injury are most likely covertly and overtly aggressive and violent.

    “Findings suggest both grandiose and vulnerable narcissists' reactions to narcissistic injury are most likely covertly and overtly aggressive and violent”
    Quote in the paperSubstantial claim
    • Rests on an assumption: Participants' self-identification as having been in a relationship with a narcissist accurately identifies their partners as narcissistic.
    • Rests on an assumption: The researcher's classification of partners into grandiose versus vulnerable subtypes based on the first interview question and trait descriptions accurately reflects the partners' actual narcissistic subtype.
    • Rests on an assumption: Participants' retrospective subjective accounts accurately reflect their partners' behavior and motives.
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    Vulnerable narcissists commonly experienced significant injury and rage from fear of abandonment.

    “whereas vulnerable narcissists commonly experienced significant injury and rage from fear of abandonment.”
    Quote in the paperSubstantial claim
    • Rests on an assumption: Participants' self-identification as having been in a relationship with a narcissist accurately identifies their partners as narcissistic.
    • Rests on an assumption: The researcher's classification of partners into grandiose versus vulnerable subtypes based on the first interview question and trait descriptions accurately reflects the partners' actual narcissistic subtype.
    • Rests on an assumption: Participants' retrospective subjective accounts accurately reflect their partners' behavior and motives.
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    The underlying motives for the aggressive and violent behavior differed between grandiose and vulnerable narcissists.

    “however, the underlying motives for the behavior differed.”
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    • Rests on an assumption: Participants' self-identification as having been in a relationship with a narcissist accurately identifies their partners as narcissistic.
    • Rests on an assumption: The researcher's classification of partners into grandiose versus vulnerable subtypes based on the first interview question and trait descriptions accurately reflects the partners' actual narcissistic subtype.
    • Rests on an assumption: Participants' retrospective subjective accounts accurately reflect their partners' behavior and motives.
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    Rage associated with grandiosely narcissistic partners appeared to be commonly provoked by confrontation or perceived threats to their self-worth.

    “Analysis showed that rage associated with grandiosely narcissistic partners appeared to be commonly provoked by confrontation or perceived threats to their self-worth”
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    • Rests on an assumption: Participants' self-identification as having been in a relationship with a narcissist accurately identifies their partners as narcissistic.
    • Rests on an assumption: The researcher's classification of partners into grandiose versus vulnerable subtypes based on the first interview question and trait descriptions accurately reflects the partners' actual narcissistic subtype.
    • Rests on an assumption: Participants' retrospective subjective accounts accurately reflect their partners' behavior and motives.
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    Findingown data

    Three overarching themes emerged from the interview transcripts: (a) overt and covert expressions of abuse, (b) challenge to self-perceived authority, and (c) fear of abandonment.

    “Three overarching themes emerged: (a) overt and covert expressions of abuse, (b) challenge to self-perceived authority, and (c) fear of abandonment.”
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      “Three overarching themes emerged from the interview transcripts concerning the participants' subjective accounts of their intimate relationships with narcissistic partners.These themes are (a) overt and covert expressions of abuse, (b) challenge to self-perceived authority, and (c) fear of abandonment.”
    Quote in the paperSubstantial claim
    • Rests on an assumption: Participants' self-identification as having been in a relationship with a narcissist accurately identifies their partners as narcissistic.
    • Rests on an assumption: The researcher's classification of partners into grandiose versus vulnerable subtypes based on the first interview question and trait descriptions accurately reflects the partners' actual narcissistic subtype.
    • Rests on an assumption: Participants' retrospective subjective accounts accurately reflect their partners' behavior and motives.
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    Findingown data

    The narcissists described in this sample were perceived to be in a constant state of rage, manifested outwardly as verbal and physical abuse and inwardly as subtle and repressed anger, pernicious psychological manipulation, and passive-aggressive behavior.

    “The narcissists described in this sample were perceived to be in a constant state of rage, which appeared to be manifested outwardly in the form of verbal and physical abuse, and inwardly in terms of more subtle and repressed anger, pernicious psychological manipulation, and passive-aggressive behavior.”
    Quote in the paperSubstantial claim
    • Rests on an assumption: Participants' self-identification as having been in a relationship with a narcissist accurately identifies their partners as narcissistic.
    • Rests on an assumption: Participants' retrospective subjective accounts accurately reflect their partners' behavior and motives.
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    Findingown data

    Four participants had partners who displayed grandiose characteristics and three participants had partners who exhibited vulnerable traits.

    “As a result, four participants had partners who displayed grandiose characteristics and three victims had partners who exhibited vulnerable traits.”
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    • Rests on an assumption: The researcher's classification of partners into grandiose versus vulnerable subtypes based on the first interview question and trait descriptions accurately reflects the partners' actual narcissistic subtype.
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    Many participants experienced psychological abuse as more damaging than physical assault, with violent threats, coercive control, and systematic attempts to menace and invalidate their perceived reality (gaslighting) as significant factors in their mental health.

    “many participants experienced the psychological abuse as more damaging, with violent threats, coercive control, and the systematic attempts to menace and invalidate their perceived reality (i.e.,”
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    • Rests on an assumption: Participants' self-identification as having been in a relationship with a narcissist accurately identifies their partners as narcissistic.
    • Rests on an assumption: Participants' retrospective subjective accounts accurately reflect their partners' behavior and motives.
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    At times, the rage was experienced as unpredictable, frightening, and occurring without apparent provocations.

    “At times, the rage was experienced as unpredictable, frightening, and occurring without apparent provocations:”
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    • Rests on an assumption: Participants' self-identification as having been in a relationship with a narcissist accurately identifies their partners as narcissistic.
    • Rests on an assumption: Participants' retrospective subjective accounts accurately reflect their partners' behavior and motives.
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    Findingreasoning

    The second and third themes encapsulate the underlying motives driving aggressive outbursts for the grandiose narcissist and for the vulnerable narcissist, respectively.

    “The second and third themes encapsulate the underlying motives driving aggressive outbursts for the grandiose narcissist and for the vulnerable narcissist, respectively”
    Quote in the paperSubstantial claim
    • Rests on an assumption: Participants' self-identification as having been in a relationship with a narcissist accurately identifies their partners as narcissistic.
    • Rests on an assumption: The researcher's classification of partners into grandiose versus vulnerable subtypes based on the first interview question and trait descriptions accurately reflects the partners' actual narcissistic subtype.
    • Rests on an assumption: Participants' retrospective subjective accounts accurately reflect their partners' behavior and motives.
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    Findingown data

    Several elements of grandiose personalities emerged: overt expressions of arrogance, self-absorption, and exhibition of superiority in attitude and behavior without any need for its justification.

    “During thematic coding, several elements of grandiose personalities emerged, such as overt expressions of arrogance, self-absorption, and exhibition of superiority in attitude and behavior without any need for its justification.”
    Quote in the paperNot a substantial claim
    • Rests on an assumption: Participants' self-identification as having been in a relationship with a narcissist accurately identifies their partners as narcissistic.
    • Rests on an assumption: The researcher's classification of partners into grandiose versus vulnerable subtypes based on the first interview question and trait descriptions accurately reflects the partners' actual narcissistic subtype.
    • Rests on an assumption: Participants' retrospective subjective accounts accurately reflect their partners' behavior and motives.
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    Findingnone given

    The first theme captures the variety of abuse and hostility reported by participants in their victimization of domestic violence.

    “The first theme captures the variety of abuse and hostility reported by the participants in their victimization of domestic violence.”
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    • Rests on an assumption: Participants' self-identification as having been in a relationship with a narcissist accurately identifies their partners as narcissistic.
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    Findingown data

    Vulnerably narcissistic partners were perceived to regularly become enraged at the slightest fear of rejection or abandonment, underpinned by defenses against conscious vulnerability and interpersonal distress.

    “Vulnerably narcissistic partners were perceived to regularly become enraged at the slightest fear of rejection or abandonment, underpinned by defenses against conscious vulnerability and interpersonal distress:”
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    Findingreasoning

    Data transcripts from the participants who had been with a vulnerable narcissist appear to have a more idiosyncratic style with less psychologized language in their recollections.

    “Data transcripts from the participants who had been with a vulnerable narcissist appear to have a more idiosyncratic style with less psychologized language in their recollections.”
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    Findingcitation

    In line with previous research, vulnerable narcissists appeared to display high levels of interpersonal distress, emotional sensitivity, and extreme reliance on their partners to modulate self-esteem.

    “In line with previous research, vulnerable narcissists appeared to display high levels of interpersonal distress, emotional sensitivity, and extreme reliance on their partners to modulate self-esteem (Besser & Priel, 2010;Dickinson & Pincus, 2003).”
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    • Rests on an assumption: Participants' retrospective accounts accurately reflect their partners' narcissistic traits and behaviors.
    • Rests on an assumption: The partners described by participants can be validly classified into grandiose and vulnerable narcissistic subtypes based on participants' narratives.
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    Findingown data

    Vulnerable characteristics were apparent in the interview narratives, with features of hypersensitivity, insecurity, jealousy, paranoia, control, and an exploitative interpersonal style being common of narcissistic partners as recalled by the participants.

    “Vulnerable characteristics were apparent in the interview narratives, with features of hypersensitivity, insecurity, jealousy, paranoia, control, and an exploitative interpersonal style being common of narcissistic partners as recalled by the participants.”
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    Findingown data

    Vulnerable narcissists were perceived to manipulate in ways to inspire more sympathy, power, and control from their partners and to keep them in a heightened state of codependent anxiety.

    “The data also show that vulnerable narcissists were perceived to manipulate in ways to inspire more sympathy, power, and control from their partners and to keep them in a heightened state of codependent anxiety.”
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    Findingown data

    Participants conveyed that they gradually cut people out of their lives and became isolated as they struggled to leave their long-term relationships.

    “Participants conveyed that they gradually cut people out of their lives and became isolated as they struggled to leave their long-term relationships.”
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    Interpretationreasoning

    Popular images of the narcissist are overly simplistic because the personality trait is more complex than the grandiose type typically presented.

    “It is concluded that popular images of the narcissist are overly simplistic as the personality trait is more complex than the grandiose type typically presented.”
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    • Rests on an assumption: Participants' self-identification as having been in a relationship with a narcissist accurately identifies their partners as narcissistic.
    • Rests on an assumption: The researcher's classification of partners into grandiose versus vulnerable subtypes based on the first interview question and trait descriptions accurately reflects the partners' actual narcissistic subtype.
    • Rests on an assumption: Participants' retrospective subjective accounts accurately reflect their partners' behavior and motives.
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    Premisecitation

    In DSM-5 criteria, narcissistic pathology is represented as grandiose, arrogant, entitled, envious, and exploitative.

    “In these criteria, narcissistic pathology is represented as grandiose, arrogant, entitled, envious, and exploitative.”
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    Premisecitation

    When a narcissist perceives a potential threat, real or imagined, intolerable emotions of shame, humiliation, and anger are evoked, followed by a self-righteous defensive response intended to attack or eliminate the source of threat to restore self-esteem.

    “Logan (2009) proposed that when the potential of a threat (real or imagined) is perceived by the narcissist, intolerable emotions in the form of shame, humiliation, and anger are evoked, followed either instantly or later by a selfrighteous defensive response intended to attack or eliminate the source of threat to restore self-esteem.”
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    The vulnerable personality is observed as overtly presenting with shyness, hypersensitivity, and inhibition while harboring covert grandiosity and entitled expectations.

    “The vulnerable personality, on the contrary, is observed as overtly presenting with shyness, hypersensitivity, and inhibition, while harboring feelings of covert grandiosity and entitled expectations (Levy, 2012).”
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    Premisecitation

    Prolonged intolerable emotions may result in chronic rage reactions, which aggravate guilt and shame, fueling anger and creating a self-perpetuating shame-rage spiral.

    “These intolerable emotions, if prolonged, may result in chronic rage reactions, which further aggravate existing feelings of guilt and shame, in turn fueling anger and ultimately creating a self-perpetuating”
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    Premisecitation

    Narcissistic injury explains how narcissistic self-preoccupation can fuel a vicious cycle of intense anger, violence, and vindictiveness when self-esteem is challenged.

    “Theories have postulated the concept of”
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    Premisenone given

    The overreliance of quantitative methods measuring grandiosity has led to a paucity of research investigating the multidimensional conceptualization of narcissism and the underlying motives underpinning grandiose and vulnerable narcissists' relationship-threatening behavior.

    “Although subclinical narcissism has received growing interest in the empirical literature, the overreliance of quantitative methods measuring grandiosity has led to a paucity of research investigating the multidimensional conceptualization of narcissism and the underlying motives underpinning grandiose and vulnerable narcissists' relationship-threatening behavior.”
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    Premisecitation

    It is necessary that grandiose and vulnerable narcissism are differentiated, as violence against a partner, controlling behaviors, and psychological abuse are mediated by the two subtypes of narcissistic presentation.

    “Rinker (2009) argued it is necessary that grandiose and vulnerable narcissism are differentiated, as violence against a partner, controlling behaviors, and psychological abuse are mediated by the two subtypes of narcissistic presentation.”
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    Grandiose narcissism was associated with attachment avoidance and independent self-construal.

    “whereas grandiose narcissism was associated with attachment avoidance and independent self-construal.”
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    Pathological narcissism may simply reflect the extreme end of a single dimension, with entitlement and lack of empathy being the most maladaptive components.

    “The authors concluded that the findings might be symptomatic of the blurred boundary between pathological and subclinical narcissism, in that pathological narcissism, instead of being a qualitatively distinct construct, may simply reflect the extreme end of a single dimension, with entitlement and lack of empathy being the most maladaptive components.”
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    In Hepper et al. (2014), prison participants had significantly higher levels of narcissism than the control group, and this finding was significantly mediated by levels of trait narcissism rather than clinical NPD symptoms.

    “In short, results showed that while prison participants had significantly higher levels of narcissism than the control group, this finding was significantly mediated by levels of trait narcissism rather than clinical NPD symptoms.”
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    Study design and conductreasoning

    The researcher decided not to provide explicit guidance regarding the definition of narcissism to avoid influencing participants' understanding of narcissism.

    “Prior to conducting the interviews, the researcher decided not to provide explicit guidance regarding the definition of narcissism as to avoid influencing participants' understanding of narcissism.”
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    Study design and conductnone given

    The data set and illustrative quotes were discussed within the research team before final representation of themes to further eliminate interpretation bias and to ensure intercoder reliability.

    “The data set and the illustrative quotes were discussed within the research team before final representation of themes to further eliminate interpretation bias and to ensure intercoder reliability.”
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    Premisecitation

    Grandiose narcissists are associated with less interpersonal distress, higher self-esteem, and a secure/dismissive attachment style compared with vulnerable narcissists.

    “For instance, Dickinson and Pincus (2003) found that grandiose narcissists are associated with less interpersonal distress, higher selfesteem, and a secure/dismissive attachment style as compared with vulnerable narcissists.”
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    Both grandiose and vulnerable narcissism require external validation.

    “Although both forms of narcissism required external validation”
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    Narcissism has been linked to the perpetration of psychological abuse, verbal abuse, and sexual and physical abuse.

    “Narcissism has been linked to the perpetration of psychological abuse (Gormley & Lopez, 2010), verbal abuse (Caiozzo, Houston, & Grych, 2016;Lamkin, Lavner, & Shaffer, 2017), and sexual and physical abuse (Blinkhorn, Lyons, & Almond, 2015;Carton & Egan, 2017;Keiller, 2010;Ryan, Weikel, & Sprechini, 2008;Southard, 2010).”
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    Study design and conductnone given

    Bracketing was used to minimize research bias as much as possible.

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    Vulnerable narcissism has been associated with a possessive love style characterized by dependency and interpersonal fearfulness.

    “Similarly, other research has found that vulnerable narcissism has been associated with a possessive love style characterized by dependency and interpersonal fearfulness (Rohmann, Herner, Bierhoff, & Neumann, 2012)”
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    Grandiose narcissists are particularly vulnerable to threats concerning achievement and competition failure but are less concerned regarding domains requiring the approval of others.

    “whereas grandiose narcissists were particularly vulnerable to threats concerning achievement and competition failure but were less concerned regarding domains requiring the approval of others.”
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    Vulnerable narcissists are likely to promote social withdrawal and avoidance of intimate relationships, given their fear of disappointments and self-esteem threat.

    “As a result of these interpersonal difficulties, Dickinson and Pincus (2003) asserted that vulnerable narcissists are likely to promote social withdrawal and avoidance of intimate relationships, given their fear of disappointments and self-esteem threat.”
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    Narcissists may hold grudges, plan revenge to reassert domination and control, and repair damage to self-esteem.

    “Such behavior may involve narcissists holding grudges against those who are perceived to have wronged them, carefully planning plots for revenge to reassert domination and control, and thus repair damage done to self-esteem (Roark, 2012).”
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    Vulnerable narcissists exhibit an anxious/fearful attachment style, high interpersonal distress, and low self-esteem.

    “On the contrary, it was found that vulnerable narcissists appeared to exhibit an anxious/fearful attachment style, high interpersonal distress, and low self-esteem.”
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    Interpretationcitation

    The significant distress and pain experienced by participants shed light on the dysfunctional context narcissists create through their interpersonal hostility, resulting in a lack of empathy and callous exploitation of others.

    “The significant distress and pain experienced by participants shed light on the dysfunctional context narcissists create through their interpersonal hostility, resulting in a lack of empathy and callous exploitation of others”
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    Fear of abandonment is a central marker for BPD.

    “Fear of abandonment, for instance, is a central marker for BPD (American Psychological Association, 2013).”
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    Study design and conductreasoning

    Participants' recollections of their past relationships may have been somewhat restructured and rephrased through repeated telling in self-help groups.

    “In terms of the authenticity of the data, it can be argued that participants' recollections of their past relationships may have been somewhat restructured and rephrased through repeated telling in self-help groups.”
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    Interpretationown data

    In this study, narcissistic partners were described as experiencing chronic rage reactions in both overt and covert forms, adding further credence to the existence of explosive and passive-aggressive types of rage identified in previous research.

    “In this study, narcissistic partners were described as experiencing chronic rage reactions in both overt and covert forms, adding further credence to the existence of explosive and passiveaggressive types of rage identified in previous research (Krizan & Johar, 2015;Miller et al., 2010;Roark, 2012).”
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    Interpretationown data

    The data demonstrated that grandiose narcissists were perceived to show little interpersonal distress, coupled with an inability to endure committed long-term relationships, suggesting that partners serve as narcissistic supply.

    “The data demonstrated that grandiose narcissists were perceived to show little interpersonal distress, coupled with an inability to endure committed longterm relationships, suggesting that partners serve as narcissistic supply.”
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    • Rests on an assumption: Participants' retrospective accounts accurately reflect their partners' narcissistic traits and behaviors.
    • Rests on an assumption: The partners described by participants can be validly classified into grandiose and vulnerable narcissistic subtypes based on participants' narratives.
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    Interpretationreasoning

    The more idiosyncratic style of vulnerable-narcissist transcripts could be the result of there being a paucity of literature concerning the vulnerable narcissist in domestic violence, meaning that participants were unable to find a label or cause for the behavior of their partners and were 'working this out' through the dialogue in their interviews.

    “This could be the result of there being a paucity of literature concerning the vulnerable narcissist in domestic violence, meaning that participants were unable to find a label or cause for the behavior of their partners and were “working this out” through the dialogue in their interviews.”
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    Study design and conductreasoning

    If participants' recollections were restructured and rephrased through repeated telling in self-help groups, this may affect the validity of the results as participants would be more likely to speak the language used in these groups rather than using their own voice.

    “If this was indeed the case, this may affect the validity of the results as participants would be more likely to speak the language used in these groups rather than using their own voice.”
    Quote in the paperNot a substantial claim
  • May combine two claims.

    Premisecitation

    Vulnerable themes have been eliminated from subsequent versions of the DSM-5 criteria to increase its grandiose emphasis, and in turn, are only included in the self and interpersonal portion of the diagnosis (Criteria A), as opposed to the actual trait perspective (Criteria B).

    “Vulnerable themes have been eliminated from subsequent versions of the DSM-5 criteria to increase its grandiose emphasis (Cain et al., 2008), and in turn, are only included in the self and interpersonal portion of the diagnosis (Criteria A), as opposed to the actual trait perspective (Criteria B;American Psychiatric Association, 2013).”
    Quote in the paperSubstantial claim0 of 2 sources checked
    • cites Cain et al., 2008

      Not checked in the free run.

    • cites American Psychiatric Association, 2013

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  • Probably not a substantial claim: may not pass S3 (load-bearing). May combine two claims.

    Study design and conductown data

    The narratives developed throughout the interview process suggest that participants took an interest in being members of groups (i.e., recovery from 'narcissistic abuse'), and sharing their stories while adapting to a particular vocabulary, which is driven and influenced by the language used in pop-psychology and self-help books.

    “In terms of participant bias, the narratives developed throughout the interview process suggest that participants took an interest in being members of groups (i.e., recovery from “narcissistic abuse”), and sharing their stories while adapting to a particular vocabulary, which is driven and influenced by the language used in pop-psychology and self-help books.”
    Quote in the paperNot a substantial claim
  • Probably not a substantial claim: may not pass S2 (checkable).

    Interpretationnone given

    The distinctive expressions of narcissistic grandiosity and vulnerability in domestic violence will arguably provide insight into the motives and behaviors that initially gave rise to them.

    “Nevertheless, the distinctive expressions of narcissistic grandiosity and vulnerability in domestic violence will arguably provide insight into the motives and behaviors that initially gave rise to them.”
    Quote in the paperNot a substantial claim
  • Classified as probably not a substantial claim. May combine two claims.

    Premisecitation

    In previous research, vulnerable narcissists are believed to be prone to avoiding relationships, and this avoidance serves to sustain elevated self-esteem against conscious awareness of chronic disappointments and self-esteem threat.

    “Yet, in previous research, vulnerable narcissists are believed to be prone to avoiding relationships, and this avoidance serves to sustain elevated self-esteem against conscious awareness of chronic disappointments and self-esteem threat (Dickinson & Pincus, 2003).”
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    Interpretationreasoning

    Contrary to long-standing preconceived notions of the stereotypical grandiose narcissist, the vulnerable subtype is arguably the lesser seen and understood image of narcissism in interpersonal contexts, given its overt presentation of shyness, constraint, and emotional sensitivity.

    “Contrary to long-standing preconceived notions of the stereotypical grandiose narcissist, the vulnerable subtype is arguably the lesser seen and understood image of narcissism in interpersonal contexts, given its overt presentation of shyness, constraint, and emotional sensitivity.”
    Quote in the paperSubstantial claim
    • Rests on an assumption: The partners described by participants can be validly classified into grandiose and vulnerable narcissistic subtypes based on participants' narratives.
  • Probably not a substantial claim: may not pass S3 (load-bearing).

    Interpretationown data

    The more idiosyncratic style of vulnerable-narcissist transcripts may also be evidence that individuals were using their own language to describe their experiences, and not the language and labels they had read about in literature and pop-psychology books.

    “It may also be evidence that individuals were using their own language to describe their experiences, and not the language and labels they had read about in literature and pop-psychology books.”
    Quote in the paperNot a substantial claim
  • Classified as probably not a substantial claim. May combine two claims.

    Premisecitation

    Pincus and Lukowitsky (2010) contend that expressions of grandiosity and vulnerability may each be either overtly or covertly displayed, and, therefore, these character styles may appropriately be considered as states operating dialectically and reciprocally.

    “In support of this argument, Pincus and Lukowitsky (2010) contend that expressions of grandiosity and vulnerability may each be either overtly or covertly displayed, and, therefore, these character styles may appropriately be considered as states operating dialectically and reciprocally.”
    Quote in the paperSubstantial claim0 of 1 sources checked
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    Interpretationcitation

    Failing to capture the complex and multidimensional aspects of narcissism may impede clinical recognition of patients who present narcissistic vulnerability, along with the related self-regulation behaviours that drive narcissistic pathology.

    “Failing to capture the complex and multidimensional aspects of narcissism may impede clinical recognition of patients who present narcissistic vulnerability (Pincus & Lukowitsky, 2010), along with the related self-regulation behaviours that drive narcissistic pathology.”
    Quote in the paperSubstantial claim0 of 1 sources checked
    • cites Pincus & Lukowitsky, 2010

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  • May combine two claims.

    Interpretationreasoning

    This fearful attachment style was evidenced across the narratives and is indicative of vulnerable narcissists' covert entitled expectations of partners to satisfy their needs while fearing they will fail to do so.

    “This fearful attachment style was evidenced across the narratives and is indicative of vulnerable narcissists' covert entitled expectations of partners to satisfy their needs while fearing they will fail to do so.”
    Quote in the paperSubstantial claim
  • May combine two claims.

    Interpretationown data

    In this study, results provide new insights into how vulnerable narcissists are perceived to maintain their intimate relationships, and, more importantly, identify the underlying dynamics driving their relationship-threatening behaviors.

    “In this study, however, results provide new insights into how vulnerable narcissists are perceived to maintain their intimate relationships, and, more importantly, identify the underlying dynamics driving their relationshipthreatening behaviors.”
    Quote in the paperSubstantial claim
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  • The paper relies on this without support.

    Participants' self-identification as having been in a relationship with a narcissist accurately identifies their partners as narcissistic.

    “The inclusion criteria required participants to perceive themselves to have been in a relationship with a narcissist and also be above 18 years old.”
  • The paper relies on this without support.

    The researcher's classification of partners into grandiose versus vulnerable subtypes based on the first interview question and trait descriptions accurately reflects the partners' actual narcissistic subtype.

    “Once interviews were conducted, it was possible to predict what type of narcissist the participant's partner was through the use of the first interview question, for example,”
  • The paper relies on this without support.

    Participants' retrospective subjective accounts accurately reflect their partners' behavior and motives.

    “Three overarching themes emerged from the interview transcripts concerning the participants' subjective accounts of their intimate relationships with narcissistic partners.”
  • The paper relies on this without support.

    Participants' retrospective accounts accurately reflect their partners' narcissistic traits and behaviors.

    “From the participants' accounts, narcissists in this sample were perceived to exhibit a pervasive pattern of defensive responses to sources of ego threats and injury accompanied by violent outbursts.”
  • The paper relies on this without support.

    The partners described by participants can be validly classified into grandiose and vulnerable narcissistic subtypes based on participants' narratives.

    “In terms of the overt presentation of the grandiose narcissistic subtype, participants shared experiences of being subjected to hostile outbursts when demands of entitlement, admiration, and perceived authority were not met.”
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  • People with narcissistic traits have been described as using game playing tactics, showing self-centred, materialistic, deceptive or controlling behaviours, which may include stalking behaviour and interpersonal violence.

    “Specifically within romantic domains, people with narcissistic traits have been described as using ‘game playing tactics’ (Campbell et al., 2002), showing self‐centred, materialistic, deceptive or controlling behaviours (Brunell & Campbell, 2011), which may also include stalking behaviour and interpersonal violence (Green & Charles, 2019; Menard et al., 2021; Menard & Pincus, 2012).”

    From Pathological narcissism: An analysis of interpersonal dysfunction within intimate relationships (2022) · cites this paper as Green & Charles, 2019

    The “Overt and Covert Expressions of Abuse” section describes participants’ accounts of physical assault, violent threats, and coercive control by narcissistic partners, supporting the interpersonal-violence part of the claim. The passages found do not describe stalking behavior, so that part is not supported by our copy. (LLM, conf=0.85)

    Experimental — accuracy not yet measured
  • Most abuse research focuses on overt manifestations of abuse within these relationships.

    “This is noteworthy as majority of abuse research focuses on overt manifestations occurring within these relationships (Green & Charles, 2019; Ponti et al., 2020).”

    From Pathological narcissism: An analysis of interpersonal dysfunction within intimate relationships (2022) · cites this paper as Green & Charles, 2019

    The ‘Overt and Covert Expressions of Abuse’ section describes both forms in participants’ relationships, but does not assess what most abuse research studies. The ‘Grandiose Versus Vulnerable Narcissism in Intimate Relationships’ section says research has overrelied on measures of grandiosity; that is not a claim that most research focuses on overt abuse. Searches for that research-focus claim found no supporting passage. (LLM, conf=0.73)

    Experimental — accuracy not yet measured

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Authors
Green, A., & Charles, K.
Affiliations
Edinburgh Napier University (GB)
Corresponding author
Green, Ava
Venue
Sage Open
Published
2019-04
Volume
9
Issue
2
ISSN
2158-2440 (ISSN-L)
OpenAlex
W2942940834
Cited by
53
References
52
Citations by year
2026: 5 · 2025: 10 · 2024: 16 · 2023: 10 · 2022: 5 · 2021: 2 · 2020: 4 · 2019: 1
FWCI
3.51
Type
journal article
Language
en
Open access
Locations
  • SAGE Open (publishedVersion, cc-by)
  • Edinburgh Napier Research Repository (Edinburgh Napier University) (publishedVersion, cc-by)
  • City Research Online (City University London) (acceptedVersion)
  • RePEc: Research Papers in Economics (submittedVersion)
  • DOAJ (DOAJ: Directory of Open Access Journals) (submittedVersion)
  • Edinburgh Napier Research Repository (Edinburgh Napier University) (submittedVersion, other-oa)
Topics
  • Social Sciences › Psychology › Clinical Psychology › Personality Traits and Psychology
  • Social Sciences › Psychology › Clinical Psychology › Personality Disorders and Psychopathology
  • Social Sciences › Health › Intimate Partner and Family Violence
Keywords
narcissism, grandiose narcissism, vulnerable narcissism, narcissistic injury, narcissistic rage, domestic violence, intimate partner violence, self-esteem regulation, fear of abandonment

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