Men's lived experiences of perinatal loss: A review of the literature
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Background: Perinatal loss is often considered an emotionally and physically traumatic event for expectant parents. While there is strong evidence of its impact on women, limited research has independently explored men's lived experiences. Aim: This scoping review will examine current literature on the lived experiences of men whose partner has experienced a still‐birth or miscarriage. Material and Methods: The scoping review identified relevant articles by systematically searching through four electronic databases utilising a PRISMA search strategy. Strict inclusion and exclusion criteria were applied to articles. The articles’ reference lists were further scrutinised until no further articles that met the criteria were located. Fifteen articles were located including 14 qualitative studies and one non‐peer reviewed academic article. Articles were thematically analysed. Results: The review identified three major themes that are particularly pertinent to shaping the lived experiences of men whose partner has suffered a perinatal loss: (1) pregnancy attachment and the aftermath; (2) supporting their partner and being supported; and (3) impacts upon future pregnancies. Conclusion: Perinatal loss can have negative implications for men's psychological and social well‐being. Across the studies men had different levels of attachments to the pregnancy, influencing their emotional responses to the loss. Men perceived their primary role as being a supporter to their partners but received limited support themselves. Men often reported that their safe and trusting attitudes toward pregnancy had forever changed. Further areas of research are recommended in hopes of enhancing support for men, and consequently their partners and families, who experience perinatal loss.
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Recently, three reviews were published in areas relating to men's experiences of pregnancy/neonatal loss; two were scoping reviews rather than systematic, and the other thematically synthesised only qualitative studies on men's lived experiences of miscarriage.
“Recently, three reviews were published in areas relating to men’s experiences of pregnancy/neonatal loss. However, two of these were scoping reviews rather than systematic [48, 49], and the other thematically synthesised only qualitative studies on men’s lived experiences of miscarriage [50].”
From Men’s grief following pregnancy loss and neonatal loss: a systematic review and emerging theoretical model (2020) · cites this paper as [48]
Following perinatal loss, mothers are at risk of physical and emotional trauma, and fathers experience their own emotional trauma, which may be compounded by witnessing mothers' responses.
“Following perinatal loss, there is a risk of physical and emotional trauma for mothers; fathers experience their own emotional trauma, which may be compounded by witnessing mothers’ responses.7,8”
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- Authors
- Nguyen, V., Temple‐Smith, M., & Bilardi, J.
- Affiliations
- The University of Melbourne (AU)
- Department of General Practice The University of Melbourne Melbourne Victoria Australia
- Corresponding author
- Nguyen, Van
- Venue
- Australian and New Zealand Journal of Obstetrics and Gynaecology
- Publisher
- Wiley
- Published
- 2019-08-15
- Volume
- 59
- Issue
- 6
- Pages
- 757-766
- ISSN
- 0004-8666 (ISSN-L)
- 1479-828X
- OpenAlex
- W2968571712
- Cited by
- 41
- References
- 26
- Citations by year
- 2026: 6 · 2025: 4 · 2024: 11 · 2023: 1 · 2022: 8 · 2021: 7 · 2020: 4
- FWCI
- 5.55
- Type
- journal article
- Language
- en
- Open access
- closed
- Locations
- Australian and New Zealand Journal of Obstetrics and Gynaecology (publishedVersion)
- PubMed (publishedVersion)
- Minerva Access (University of Melbourne) (submittedVersion)
- Topics
- Social Sciences › Psychology › Clinical Psychology › Grief, Bereavement, and Mental Health
- Health Sciences › Medicine › Public Health, Environmental and Occupational Health › Maternal Mental Health During Pregnancy and Postpartum
- Health Sciences › Medicine › Pediatrics, Perinatology and Child Health › Global Maternal and Child Health
- Keywords
- perinatal loss, stillbirth, miscarriage, men's lived experience, paternal grief, partner support, psychological well-being, paternal support
- MeSH terms
- Abortion, Spontaneous, Emotions, Fathers, Female, Humans, Male, Stillbirth
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