Point-Counterpoints: Anxiety and Social Exclusion
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This article elaborates a view of anxiety as deriving from a basic human need to belong to social groups. Anxiety is seen as a pervasive and possibly an innately prepared form of distress that arises in response to actual or threatened exclusion from important social groups. The reasons groups exclude individuals (incompetence, deviance or immorality, and unattractiveness) therefore should all be linked to anxiety, and events that implicate the self as incompetent, guilty, or unattractive should create anxiety. This “exclusion theory” of anxiety can be considered a broader revision of separation anxiety theory and is distinguished from theories that base anxiety on fear of death, fear of castration, and perception of uncertainty. Current evidence from multiple sources is reviewed to show the explanatory power and utility of exclusion theory, and implications of this theory are developed in relation to culturally changing standards of sexual behavior, the motivations underlying the Oedipus complex, and the formation and functions of the self.
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It is difficult to tease apart anxiety and social anxiety because both have been exclusively traced back to social threats.
“For example, it is difficult to tease apart anxiety and social anxiety, because both have been exclusively traced back to social threats (Baumeister & Tice, 1990; see also Matthews, 2004).”
From Cultural norm fulfillment, interpersonal belonging, or getting ahead? A large-scale cross-cultural test of three perspectives on the function of self-esteem. (2015) · cites this paper as Baumeister & Tice, 1990
Ostracism from the social group impacts negatively on a variety of health-related variables, including self-esteem and sense of belonging, emotional well-being, sense of life meaning, purpose, self-efficacy, and self-worth.
“ostracism from the social group impacts negatively on a variety of health-related variables, including one's self-esteem and sense of belonging, emotional well-being, sense of life meaning, purpose, self-efficacy, and self-worth”
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- Authors
- Baumeister, R. F., & Tice, D. M.
- Affiliations
- Case Western Reserve University (US)
- Venue
- Journal of Social and Clinical Psychology
- Publisher
- Guilford Publications
- Published
- 1990-06
- Volume
- 9
- Issue
- 2
- Pages
- 165-195
- ISSN
- 0736-7236 (ISSN-L)
- OpenAlex
- W1963753597
- Cited by
- 743
- References
- 9
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- FWCI
- 7.43
- Type
- journal article
- Language
- en
- Open access
- closed
- Locations
- Journal of Social and Clinical Psychology (publishedVersion)
- Topics
- Social Sciences › Psychology › Social Psychology › Death Anxiety and Social Exclusion
- Social Sciences › Psychology › Experimental and Cognitive Psychology › Anxiety, Depression, Psychometrics, Treatment, Cognitive Processes
- Social Sciences › Psychology › Clinical Psychology › Psychoanalysis and Psychopathology Research
- Keywords
- anxiety, social exclusion, need to belong, social group membership, guilt, self-concept, Oedipus complex, self-formation, fear of death, uncertainty
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